What really simple fantasies do you have?

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    Mine is so simple in theory. But a really reluctant wife will keep it a fantasy.

    She would buy a dog tag with "Do not open til Xmas" engraved on it and lock it to my device...

    Anyone else have fun ideas like this?
     
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    My wife and I are just starting out and she is still in the "warming up" phase as I call it. Right now my simplest fantasy is for her to take full ownership of the key and all that entails, and begin teasing and denial / being more selfish in bed.

    I know she's got it in her, I'm just waiting for the mental shift of "I'm holding the key for my husband" to turn into "I'm enforcing chastity on my husband"
     
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    1. Her being more into oral sex and proactively asking for it
    2. Her wearing the key on her necklace or similar
     
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    I’ve been waiting for that for the last year!
    She just isn’t happy holding the key, sometimes she will sometimes she won’t
    At least she doesn’t get upset anymore when I lock
    Andaspart of play sessions she accepts it
    But oh Godi I wish she would take the lead
     
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    Oh, and I want a good pegging!!!
    Any takers?
     
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    She unlocks me, makes me orgasm 3 or 5 times, and then locks me back up while telling me she'll do the same next week.
     
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    Ok, so after a long time with chastity in our lives (and I answered this in the ‘extreme fantasy section’), I would just really like to make love to my wife and ejaculate. You know, without a condom. It sounds really normal, and something we always used to do, but chastity made her rethink her birth control! So until she goes through the menopause she will never feel my cum inside her again and I will never feel the unrestricted joy of relaxed sex.
    How’s that for a simple fantasy. Careful what you wish for guys!
     
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    This is right up @JaySaysYes ’s alley. Pardon the pun. BIG anal fan.
     
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    Ouch! My sympathies, I don't know that I'll ever be able to give up unprotected PIV, and thankfully my wife loves it so I don't think that even if she gets incredibly strict with chastity it will ever be off the table.
     
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    Jay?
     
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    I do have a big back alley that is a bit of a mess, and could do with a good clean out. I'd do it myself, but it's just so full of shit I'm not sure I have the stomach for it.
     
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    It wasn’t out of strictness per se. We just locked up so often without me doing it that it just made sense. At the time I felt quite ‘heroic’ (I can’t even think of the word), it just felt like the right thing to suggest… now I realise it was a bigger sacrifice than I imagined.
     
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    Best call in the A team then, blow hoovers and mulch mincers
     
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    C'mon man, it's what you wanted.
     
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    Being kept a virgin until my wedding night. My new wife would then decide if she takes my virginity or if I am to stay a virgin for her
     
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    Similar for me, I usually initiate oral but I want to be ordered to go down. She does wear her key under her top but I am hoping she will wear it openly when we are on vacation.
     
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    Vasectomy?
     
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    I’m not arguing against it !!!
     
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    1. That she had a preference for oral sex and asked for / expected it every morning before starting her day.
    2. That she would release me, bring me to the brink of an orgasm, and then ask me to beg her to deny me for at least another week.
     
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    I'd like to be teased a little more then I am when locked. Maybe let out edged and put back from time to time. About my only complaint, otherwise she's doing great in such a short time.
     
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    As a simple fantasy, I quite like a medical nurse shaving and putting on the cage. She is following the prescribed medical advice for men who have problems with excessive masturbation.

    Love the idea of, in that case, it being non-sexual, and for my own good.
     
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    Also love the fantasy of a wife who locks her husband, then teases him, trains him, then eventually has sex with others, while still retaining the strong bond between them.
     
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    having her take full control of the key and wear it
    and having her show me off caged to her friends
     
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    1) Having an in-person keyholder.
    2) Werewolf boyfriend
     
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    The biggest fantasy I’ve been having lately is pretty simple, I’d love to be able to have piv in multiple positions for as long I desired. I don’t even care about the whole being denied an orgasm part.

    My Wife told me she was granting my request for piv tonight, I asked if I could take her from behind yesterday and she’s going to allow it tonight. It’ll be far different than pre cage days when I could fuck at any pace and for as long as I wanted, tonight will be very slow and plenty of pausing, but I can’t wait!
    It’s amazing how these little treats have become so fulfilling and keep being locked in chastity exciting
     
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