What are the rules for loctober?

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    Just wondering what the rules are for loctober, other than obviously staying locked the whole month.

    What are you allowed to do or not do?
     
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    I’ve seen everything listed from teasing caged, unlocked for edging daily, to being locked the entire month. I’d say whatever your key holder decides would be correct.
    This will be my first Locktober and I know I will not be allowed any orgasms for the month, I’m hoping for some erections for teasing but my Wife hasn’t said anything about plans.
    I believe I’ll be released on Halloween Night for sex and be allowed to cum, but I’m sure that could change.
     
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    This will be my first loctober too. But I am self locked so thats why I need to know what the rules are. I know I cant unlock and tease myself as I have no self control and would end up cumming.
     
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    Hey there, you want stay locked for the month . Without a KH you miss out on them teasing the shit out of one way or another while locked. It would probably be easier not to cum if you stay locked . Good luck
     
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    From what i gather, it is a lot up to you and KH, if you have one. I did it last year and stayed chaste the whole month, but did unlock and remove cage one day for doctor appointment (with permission). For some that lock all the time, this might not be much different. But i think you could work games, teasing, and challenges into the schedule to make it more fun. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    Locktober has simple rules, I'm locked the entire time, no milkings. no orgasms, please her, and be teased with hugs and kisses.
     
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    Same. Simple rules, very straightforward. Zero expectations.
     
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    If you're self-locked, your rule has to be no erections no matter what, even if you have to unlock for an hour for a doctor's appt or whatever.
     
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    #9 Headtrip, Sep 21, 2021
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    My Queen said to me this morning: "assuming you are a good boy, this Loctober our focus will be on orgasm training. Specifically on teaching you different ways to give me even better orgasms while always caged"

    I know there will be no unlocks. She will probably tease me thru the cage a few times if she thinks I need it, but for sure will stop short.
     
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    Don't overthink it and make it what you & your keyholder want to make it. Loctober for some people might be using their chastity device & might be the only time they use it. Have fun with it, and use it to possibly push some boundaries for yourself or your & your partner.
     
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    #1 rule of locktober is that you have no say in what rules are imposed on you for locktober. It is like playing the board game Monopoly and landing on "Go to jail. Do not collect $200". Actually, just give your keyholder $200 just because.
     
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    Rule #1 Mistress has the key. Mistress is in charge. Rule #2 see rule #1:D:D:D
     
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    For me, and my wife, the purpose of locking is to prevent erections and orgasm. If no orgasm for the month, success. If no erection, bonus points. But hours of locking/days of locking are not the goal, rather the means.
     
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    I think the main rule of Locktober is that once you work through it and see that everything is fine, you should start expecting that to be your new normal starting 2 months later on January 1st...or November 1st if in a rush.
     
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    Yes thats what happens here also
     
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    Tuesday my Mrs and I had PIV for the first time after 3 months. She rides me like a cowgirl. I was allowed to cum. The last day of September she edges me thoroughly.
    Friday I was told that this year Loctober means no cumming in any way. So if I make a mistake NO-vember will be added in the same way. This morning she put a dildo in my Sissy Cunt and twisted my nipples. How on earth can I prevent mistakes in this way. It will be a long month. That are my Loctober rules I think !
     
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    Before Locktober I suggested a contract, and she was keen to do so. We signed it on Locktober's Eve

    Chasity contract for husband and wife.

    This contract has been drawn up by the husband, as an expression of his love, trust, respect and full commitment to his wife. It is written with the purpose of them growing closer together, and improving their marriage in to the future. For his own good, the husband grants complete control over his sexual release to his wife, and offers this freely, trusting her to manage his sexual and non-sexual needs for the benefit of them both.


    1. The Husband will show respect. Care for his Wife, support her decisions and place her needs above his.

    2. The Husband will wear a Chastity Device to prevent self-relief at all times, when not in the presence of the Wife.

    3. The Husband is not to access the keys to the device, without permission, except in an emergency.

    4. The Husband will not ask to be released (Although the Wife may allow the Husband to beg for more time in the cage, or beg to be released, for her amusement).

    5. Only the Wife can decide on length of lock-up or release. She can change her mind, abandon release, ruin, deny or lock the Husband back up at any time, as a form of Tease and Denial. (This is known as the "You asked for this. Be Careful What You Wish For!" Clause)

    6. The Husband may not come without permission, though during intercourse permission is assumed given, unless stated otherwise.

    7. Decisions on when the Husband is allowed to come, or have a ruined orgasm will be based on what the Wife believes is best of the relationship.

    8. Unauthorised orgasm, even by accident is liable to punishment.

    9. The Husband understands that failing any of her instructions he is liable to extended time locked up, and/or punishment as the Wife sees fit.

    10. The Wife understands that the Husband is fully commitment to her needs. And will use his desires to her advantage to make her life more comfortable.

    11.The needs of the Wife are to come before the Husband’s.

    12. The Wife may choose to subject the Husband to as much teasing or punishment as she feels necessary, as this reinforces his place and dependence on her.

    13. The Husband will inform the Wife of any problems regarding the wearing of the device.

    14. The Wife will make time to supervise removal of the device for washing at least once a week.

    15. The Wife understands that longer periods of chastity are sometimes mentally and physically challenging, and will do her best to encourage and reassure the Husband through those difficulties, checking how he feels.

    16. Only the Wife may amend or cancel the contract.

    17. The Wife’s word is final.


    The signing of this contract by the husband automatically and instantly confers ownership to his wife under the terms and conditions as laid out in this contract.


    Both parties need to have considered and be absolutely sure that they are willing and prepared to fulfill their obligations to each other as described within this contract before signing.
     
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    spot on!
     
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    1. No cage removal for any reason.
    2. Service her at least twice a day, preferably more often.
     
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    there's really only one rule and its in the name...Locktober, 31 days locked...other than that its whatever the keyholder wants...don't overthink it
     
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