Call it topping from the bottom if you like, I would consider it communication. I suggested a game to Ms K/H this evening quite hesitantly. I wasn't sure how she would take it but once she heard me out, she smiled and told me she liked the idea. I've got three pair of identically appearing keys from 3 different integrally locked devices. Two of them fit the one I'm locked in until Ms K/H decides. I suggested to her that since that means six keys, two fit the device, that she keep one and we put the rest in a safe place of her keeping. The game is that, once a month (or whatever period she likes,) we put the keys in a container that I can't see through and draw one. If it unlocks the device, I'm allowed out for whatever period she allows. If it doesn't, it goes back with the others and we try again next time. Quite a mind-fuck for me and a deeper release to her. If she decides a month, it would more than likely become a monthly thing. I suggested to her that it could lead to me being locked for months/years if my luck isn't good. SO, for the immediate future, the possibility of my being released from this steel cage has become a 1 in 5 chance on a monthly basis. Random request for anyone good with numbers, what might the odds lead to occasional release with 1 in 5?
Odds are slightly (51.2%) against any release in three months, substantially (59.04%) in favour of your getting one in four.
Errr, that does take into consideration that the picked key goes back into the pot for next month doesn't it?
With replacement of the previously drawn key the probability of any desired single outcome, namely the one key that will unlock your cage, is a constant 1/5 or 20% or as less precisely but often written a 1 in 5 probability of securing a release. Unless you interfere with the draw in some way that is by either reducing or adding to the number of keys that will or will not open the lock the likelihood wil remain constant if the key is replaced before the following draw. It is quite conceivable that with one draw per month with a liklihood of success of 1/5 you could have already had your last orgasm. Then again the next any number you like could also conceivably result in a successful draw. Once when marking a paper on probability one (very misguided) student quite clearly stated that the probability of winning the lottery is 50:50 the reason given for this was that you either win or you dont.. so there are only two outcomes.... Thus confirming the speculative theory that one can not educate pork.
The possibility of my final orgasm of course is my concern. As the old song goes, "If it weren't for bad luck, I'd have no luck at all? Gloom, despair, agony for me."
since I like to "win" at any cost, I would mark the key so while its still her game, I would maintain control. She doesn't have to know so she will get great enjoyment out of the game as well as the mystery of will he or won't he get the key but you have a fall back position if the game gets out of control.
To me, "Marking" the keys wouldn't be fair to the game or to my promise. Besides, I told her that we needed to find a container to draw from where I couldn't see the keys anyway, so that pretty much makes that idea unnecessary. Besides, the game getting out of control leads to the anxiety/high of being out of control of my orgasms is part of the game for me.
I couldn't do it. I have too strong a need to maintain absolute control over myself and surroundings ( probably carry over from my job where a mistake would be really bad). I would have to find a way to have ultimate control of the outcome.
Yes it does. If the picked key does not go back it's 60% chance you'll be out after 3 months, 80% in 4, 100% in 5.
Since the unsuccessful key is put back into the container. Your odds never change you have a 20% chance of being unlocked for the amount of time She decides. 1 minute, or maybe 10. Minutes. Everything e you draw a key you have an 80% chance of getting the wrong key. My advice is be Very Very Nice to your spouse because you may be Locked for a long time unless she wants you free.
That sounds like very good advice that I fully intend to follow. Apparently I need to see if I can quietly and very subtly suggest to her that, if the key doesn't fit this time, put it aside. (I wonder if I can put THAT off?)
I want the head-fuck of having no control I used to think I wanted access to a key on the honour system, one I would not use without permission ....but could. Its better without that fall back key access. Dire emergencies I have always had a hacksaw. With the integral locks like the HT has hacksawing my way out would be possible but much more difficult and far more expensive than just replacing a padlock. (which does remind me of an incident) With the one we having made access should be even more difficult to attain as I wont be able to buy a new A-ring off the shelf. The head-fuck that will provide ought to be even better. If she lived nearer of course there would be no need for me to have a key at all which would be the most preferable set up. Oh I want access but making sure I have not got it is even sweeter. We're currently trying to get something working with the noke padlock but not got there yet., their office is in the US and phoning for guidance is proving difficult
That's right. You have an 80% chance of wrong key each time. So chance of wrong key twice running = 80% x 80% = 64%; three times running 51.2%, 4 times running 40.96%, and so on.
For fun, I programmed a random number generator using your five key method with 20% odds of being released for an orgasm with one attempt each month. Here is how they came out based on my model run. 1st orgasm - 4 months 2nd orgasm - 1 month 3rd orgasm - 1 month 4th orgasm - 1 month 5th orgasm - 6 months 6th orgasm - 2 months 7th orgasm - 6 months 8th orgasm - 9 months 9th orgasm - 1 month 10th orgasm - 4 months If you had this outcome, in 35 months (just under three years) you would have had 10 unlocks for orgasm or roughly 3 per year. Going from a steady one a month to a sudden desert of six months between #4 and #5 would be difficult. Having back to back windows of 6 and then 9 months would be a world I have never experienced and you could only hope your KH was a skilled cock tease to keep you sane. I wish you luck.
It's all in how you play with the numbers. The Odds are definetly not in his favour of getting out for any length of time. Should be Fun LoL
When I spoke to her about that a bit earlier this evening, she observed the same possibility. I also learned that I might as well submit. I'm locked for life now. I can hope for an occasional release for whatever but, for the time being, it will literally be the luck of the draw.
Locked for life with the right partner I would not have an issue with accepting permanently locked permanently controlled both are ok permanently denied I still have some doubts about. But with the right partner I think I'm ready to start working towards it at least....provided it is something she want too.
Great system! There was a time I got twice per week teasing sessions and each time my KH and I wrote a number from 1 to 10 . If it was the same I got an orgasm,if not, I was invited to keep on trying! I never knew the outcome until the end of the session and after endless edges. Lol
Being a statistician, I wanted to provide some more hard data for your play. I have looked at a period of 12 months and computed the odds for having N releases during that period. So the chance for a certain number of releases is giving by the probability density function of the binomial distribution: We wee that having two or three releases is not impossible, having a release every single time seems out of the question, though. The most likely outcome is two releases per year. So how likely is it to have N releases or less? So of course it is 100% chance of having 12 or less releases in a year. The above plot is interesting for your keyholder. The chance of you being denied all but two orgasms is like 70%. Then for you, the chance of having N releases or more: Your chance of having two releases or more is like 60%. Having four or more releases brings this down to 12%. It seems like you have build a game around like two or three releases a year!
I suppose I need to hope she'll allow me to masturbate and the coin toss for the orgasm to be in my favor then.
Well, tomorrow (Saturday the 11th) was going to be my 3rd month locked. Ms K/H decided tonight was the night for our first key drawing. She did let me verify that one of the keys would unlock my device then put all 5 in a small closed tin and shook them. She tried to hold it up high enough I couldn't see, so I turned around so she knew I couldn't see the keys. TLR, first round of the "Game" as she called it bought me another month of lockup. I'm excited and disappointed at the same time. ;p
Ah ..excited and disappointed at the same time. A true Headfuck. Headfucks. They come in many guises but they are a major part of the game for me. Maybe not for everyone but they are for me. Im wish you many more.