I say week zero because I've just started on honour system, cold turkey while I await the package for my package...and there's every indication my KH, the trouble and strife is not starting the count on my first dry spell until after the cage arrives. Seriously it took two days to get from China to Aussie, and so far a two week wait on domestic transport via aussie post. So, day 8...I've edged a couple times to take the pressure off (cheating?). Wifey suggested I go all the way solo, but I was determined tonight to just edge. Nothing happened. We had a quick chat earlier, she's on board with the concept, but keeping it simple to start.
Congratulations on trying it out. Hope cage fits and wife feels comfortable with idea. Good luck and enjoy.
I hope she's supervising this. As a masturbator you need to get beyond the private secretiveness and she needs to see for who you are. It'll help you both accept the need for the chastity cage.
Hi, I understand. I hadn't v seen your other response until after this Trying to go cold turkey from a once a day habit has not been easy...especially since my device is taking ageeessss to come in the mail. I know I need the device and the control to help me into this. This is no longer a secretive act. I'm being open and honest with my wife all along...oh and not one viewing of certain videos in 9 days. This is big for me and real. I want this to work for us both. Also I'm enjoying the extra time and closeness with my wife. I appreciate your feedback @Rectrix , I find it encouraging. Thanks!
Finally, got a status update on the delivery, ETA looks like Monday. I will tentatively but graciously try it out and all going well, spend the next week or two preparing to wear it for long term. Fingers crossed.
Finally, device has arrived! Successfully got ring on with little fuss...just have to wait some time until old mate calms down and shrinks enough to get the cage on. Planning to go 14 days no touchy for my first "real" denial, if I make that I might go another 7-14 to observe my changes. Wife/KH and I had a (good) long deep and meaningful this morning...With all the reading I've been doing, I've been learning so much not only about chastity and what to expect, but also about the aspects of patriarchy, matriachy and gynarchy, and feeling quite empowered and liberated to be taking this on. Wife supportive and will keyhold for the time being and will enforce. I expect she will take this by the reins before too long, there's been a few suggestive looks. We'll see how this evolves for us. I hope for the better, and then for the long haul.