Wedding chastity poll

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by borbulls1961, Jan 17, 2021.

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A Man's Wedding Vows should include:

Poll closed Jan 24, 2021.
  1. I will remain chaste/locked for you for all my life

    47 vote(s)
    61.8%
  2. I will never masturbate

    25 vote(s)
    32.9%
  3. I will never watch porn soft or hard

    14 vote(s)
    18.4%
  4. I will never gawk at your body

    3 vote(s)
    3.9%
  5. I will never gawk at other women

    14 vote(s)
    18.4%
  6. I will remain chaste for you for the duration of our marriage

    35 vote(s)
    46.1%
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  1. borbulls1961
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    Following last weeks Mandatory Chastity poll where 90% voted FOR and of which about half said it should be locked for marriage, lets further explore our opinions...
     
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    Ps multiple choices are allowed...
     
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    Another good one! :). Mrs Chaste and I have had this little chat, all be it tongue in cheek. Our wedding vows are "til death do us part". But we are very much "til both of us die". Mrs Chaste did point out that if she "goes first" I'll still be chaste as she won't tell me the combination to the keysafe! :lockkey:
     
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    I chose the first one because marriage is till death do us part
     
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    My GF doesnt mind me gawking at other women that I can't have (albeit I do thus much less in chastity), and she absolutely loves when I gawk at her. Apparently it is a huge power rush/turn on for her.

    Shd has, however, promised me that our vows WILL include the word "obey" and it will come from my mouth. Pretty sure she is not joking (and would argue that should be #1 on your poll).
     
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    Just want to say that I was caged when we got married and my vows had OBAY in them, not hers
     
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    32 voters since Sunday.
    Chaste for life is the most popular vote, followed by chaste for our marriage.
    Some support to vow masturbation avoidance.
    Very few support a vow to avoid gawking!
    Poll closes at the weekend.
     
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    157.6%

    Actual poll numbers should be:

    38.5% I will remain chaste/locked for you for all my life
    13.5% I will never masturbate
    9.6% I will never watch porn soft or hard
    1.9%. I will never gawk at your body
    7.7% I will never gawk at other women
    28.8% I will remain chaste for you for the duration of our marriage

     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    Should is a loaded word, “what vows are you willing to say on your wedding?” Might alleviate the next 20 posts on the right and wrongness and how it is up to her to decide.

    I myself incorporated a bit of our lifestyle into our vows, but not enough to let anyone in on it. She holds the key, I am hers, serve and support, and a few other references. I was locked, and stayed locked.
     
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    Would be interesting to hear from the KHs what their opinions are!
     
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    No "none of the above" option?
     
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    That your wife would intend to keep you chaste if, God forbid, she passed away is one of the most romantic and sexiest things I've heard.

    Perhaps that line from her should be put in that thread "Hot things your keyholder said to you".

    You have a good wife!
     
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    I must admit I wouldn't swap Mrs Chaste for any other! And I/We prefer to think of our vows not just ending when one of us departs this world. Mrs Chaste is very much of the opinion that death isn't the end. Well if it's not I want to still belong to her!
     
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    homebody In awe of GoddesofHomebody

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    This is the problem with most of the polls put up recently. They are of the nature of Question: my kink

    a) best kink
    b) best kink ever

    Please vote
     
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    Like? I'd press the "love" comment if one were available. Good men love their wives. Thanks for being one of the good guys.
     
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    I think you make a good point. Yes, we probably all are looking to affirm something we may have in mind. But isn't gauging the opinion of others precisely why we create a poll?

    In the case of borbulls1961, he's giving us something to think about while he affirms or discounts something he may personally believe.

    Therefore, we can maybe measure the quality of a poll in this forum by how many people respond. I've seen many that get so little noise you can hear the crickets.
     
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    Hmmm so true...."my kink" is chastity!
     
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    Todays update with almost 200 readers and almost 60 voters...
    Well just over half would vow chastity for marriage and slightly less for their lifetime.

    But more interestingly 2 out of 3 would NOT vow to stop masturbating.
    And almost NONE would vow to stop gawking at their wife's body!

    Poll closes on Saturday and you could even change your vote until then.
     
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    I assumed ‘locked for life’ included ‘duration of marriage’, but just to be safe I changed it to include both, along with ‘I will never masturbate’. Although in my case I would have to add, ‘except when instructed to’.
     
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    Chastity, kinky! Surely not! :)
     
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    Final tally on wedding vows.

    270 viewers, 80 voters.

    More than half vow chastity for their marriage, just under half vow chastity for life.

    Two thirds would NOT vow to stop masturbating.

    More than 80% would NOT vow to stop gawking or watch porn!

    Thanks for all your contributions, hard to reckon with the last conclusions!! Will need further investigation.
     
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