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    With 2020 being a bit of a horrible year, being stuck inside with limited contact with our social group and families we made the best of things and started getting kinky. We dabbled with a lot of fetishes and are new to chastity but have found it really invigorating our sex.

    At first it was just for a session then for a day then two days then a week. And now my wife wants to push my boundaries to I’m locked while she is away. She is a travel nurse and it’s not uncommon for us to go a couple of weeks being apart. She was back home this week about to start a long stretch of shifts and decided that she would like me locked up until Valentine’s Day that would put my chastity time at 20 days.

    I suggested we try chastity play. Thinking we could do a day or so here and there. She has gotten super excited about it and likes the idea of me being locked up while she is away on assignment. She has been talking about taking a 8 week assignment this spring far out of State and maybe having me locked up that entire time. I’m still a little shocked at where we are at considering we just started this a few months ago.
     
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    I think that is fantastic! And precisely what chastity can help with.

    Highly recommended, that you get a device that you CAN wear for 8 weeks and that you gradually work up your tolerance.

    Lots of great posts here on the topic of long term wear. Make good use of the search feature.....and have FUN!
     
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    Sounds exciting!
     
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    Welcome to CM.

    It sounds like a fast track.

    Working myself into cage that allows extended sessions per wife's request.

    I have gone longer periods on honor system chastity. She bought xmas gifts for me restarting some old play with cages in past.

    It's an adventure.

    Work up to a cage you stay in. Have fun
     
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    Welcome. You are lucky to have a wife that take interest in doing this. Go for it!
     
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    Good luck and welcome
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and enjoyable.
     
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    I have the reverse. I make dozens of week lo g trips for my work. Average 36 + weeks a year on the road
     
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    So far I have found it the most useful site filled with people that are actually locked up and deal with stuff that the fetish sites and blogs never talk about like hygiene and lubing the ring. So much that is out there feels like the guy has never been locked up for more than an hour and still has romanticized the idea of being locked. Real life is so much different than so many peoples blogs stories and post. Being locked up and my wife out of state with the key for the first time really made me realize how much out there is just fantasy.
     
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    Hi!

    Do you currently have a cage that you can wear that long without issues and maintain personal hygeine? That's often one of the biggest impediments to long-term chastity.

    If you have a comfortable cage, then I'd recommend that you go for it. You CAN do it!!! I mean, she's not going to be around anyway. What better way to insure that you stay focused on your Lovely Keyholding Wife during her travels.

    Congratulations on your progress so far!!!

    ~subrick
     
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    So far we have found that it adds a dynamic to our marriage that takes it to a new level. We found it keeps the heat up even when we are apart.
     
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    I’ve tried the cb6000s and found the ring juat too painful after two days. I’m now in the HT nub. I’ve found it incredibly comfortable. I do have to live the ring a few times a day. I’ve just been applying lotion and have found it works fine without the scent of baby oil. Our one concern is hygiene. She hid a key in our house before she left we have a key holder she ordered from Etsy coming with those numbered key tags so eventually I will be able to remove it for cleaning. If she decides to do a 8 week lockup the. We will need to get something different. While the nub is great and I can’t pull out of it spending 30 minutes everyday cleaning and drying something just seem impractical.
     
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    If you're going to be locked for a great amount of time, I'd recommend you consider metal. Stainless steel works better than plastic for long term wear. Something along those lines.
     
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    The old saying " be careful what you wish for " it will be fun for you both I'm sure
     
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    Welcome. You're luckier than you know that your wife is a nurse and knows you need to be locked while she's away. You'll need to get a more open steel cage, however, if you're to go for eight weeks, you simply won't be able to achieve the cleanliness you need and that she wants as a nurse. Good luck, you're both on a great path.
     
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    My Wife has chosen stainless steel in open style so cleaning can be maintained without release.

    The Eye on Her Prize China cage made her mind up on that from my 3 Xmas gift cages. The fit was an issue due me being short of filling length. But for all other points she liked it.

    She has me sizing up and preparing to order a custom cage from mature metal to fulfill the extended time need with proper hygiene and fit.

    Her short term metal became the cage of shame due to lead time of MM custom.

    Enjoy your adventure.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Greetings Traveler! Welcome to The Mansion!!!
     
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