Topping from the bottom FAIL!

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    Bkwife 1 Gigaman 0 My silly little piggy tried to top from the bottom tonight and it bit him in the ass! Not sure why you inferior males never learn but I'm more than happy to teach you a lesson as often as necessary. Check out my profile page to see a pic of gigaman's sore bottom.
     
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    Oh no! Sometimes us males are a little slow.
     
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    Please tell Gigaman I feel for him. Like June bug 15th said: we can be slow learners I know I was at first
     
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    Please don't go down this road.
     
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    I would t use the word inferior, but we aren’t as smart and tough as we think.

    So while the wording may not be ideal, the reality is we’re weak compaired fo strong women.

    In this case he was weak because he though he could get away playing the top from the bottom game and she saw through it. So she sees his inferiority to her. Sadly most men are like this. They’re not smart enough to not try stuff like this and accep that we have a place and women have a place. Each relationship is different and if we each uses our strengths and let our partner(s) use theirs while letting go for the weaknesses we make the relationship stronger than if we play tough and smart.

    As for his punishment, it sounds like he deserved what he got.
     
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    @Unlucky I post in FLR category because I am in a Female Lead Relationship. And as such I obviously feel that females are the superior of the two sexes, as does my husband. It's also important to me to embrace this side of myself in order to give our relationship exactly what we want out of it.
     
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    Exactly @tomf_22033!. My piggy tries to have the best of both worlds. Wants to be controlled BUT always trying to control. I had to nip that in the bud. I think he'll agree that he'll think about that twice next time. @Gigaman...... Does your little butt still hurt this morning Lol
     
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    @BKwife good for you for taking initiative, you guys aren’t screwing around that’s for sure :). My Miss says I’ve been slacking around the house, I was supposed to detail the inside of her car for a while now but just haven’t gotten around to it with the holiday season. Well today we have the day alone together. She said after I take her out to breakfast and visit a shop she wants to peek through, we’re coming home and I’m to put on my leather shorts and detail her car in our garage. She’ll be supervising with riding crop in hand. It’s 21 degrees Fahrenheit outside and the high is 33 for the day. I asked if I could set up my space heater in the garage, she didn’t think that would be necessary lol.
     
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    LOL! No heat for you! Thanks for your kind words. Sounds like you have some work ahead of you.
     
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    An FLR does not require the belief of female superiority. It doesn't even require that the man believe that his partner is superior.
     
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    @Unlucky it’s all part of the show that makes things a little more fun for everyone. My wife and I both believe in equality on all fronts but I personally love when my Miss speaks to me like I’m lesser than her. It’s more about the dynamic and the environment this attitude and playfulness creates within the relationship. She knows I’m not inferior to her or else she probably wouldn’t truly want to be with me. It’s just all part of how some of us like to play.
     
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    EXACTLY!!! I respect my Husband 100% and believe we are equal partners. It's all part of the game .
     
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    Ok since this is about me too I should weigh in. It’s so hard for me to explain because my writing and punctuation skills suck but I will give it a go.

    BK and I are not in a Female Supremacy life style. To keep my post short read Wonderwomansubb post above, +1 on what he said.
    A lot of the time BK tells me what I want to hear, she knows my buttons and she plays me like a cheap instrument. Don’t get me wrong she thinks I am inferior some times and I don’t want to put word in her mouth but I don’t think she truly believes herself to be a female supremacist and all men are pieces of shit.

    This is our lifestyle and we don’t mean to offend anyone, we’re just having fun. But she is showing her fangs lately while she gets more confidence and enjoys the power.

    Different people have different lines that they won’t cross or don’t agree with. BK has not crossed any of my hard limits yet. She knows I love verbal humiliation and she is willing to participate, in fact she is very very good at it.
     
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    Sounds like you are happy and so is she and no one is upset! Sounds fun and it’s good to push the limits sometimes!!!!!
     
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    Call me a stick in the mud, but I don't think people should get too far into fantasy play on this website as people can and will see threads and comments out of context and not pick up that it is play and get erroneous ideas of how things are or should be. But that's just me. Do what you will.
     
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    Stick in mud lol

    Sorry I had to lol
     
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    Beautifully said Piggy
     
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    Ma'am I learned long ago to never try that on Mistress have the proof is on my profile pics Ma'am bet he was a hurting boy thank you for sharing
     
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    Yes he was. Actually whined about it for quite a while
     
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    I see that did not work Ma'am :)
     
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    OK I’m not sure if whine is the right word to use. I remember telling you that it still hurts a little while after. And it did.

    Hey BK I used the right word for whined, see I’m gettin a little better at this kind of stuff anyway. As they say at work, forward motion sometimes it doesn’t matter how much. As long as it forward motion.
     
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    Oh you whined LOL!
     
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    Like like like like like like.
    Sorry there’s only one like button I need it more.

    I’m glad she says things like that. Deep down I wonder if the verbal humiliation doesn’t take a toll after a while. I believe it can can so we try to keep it under wraps most of the time.
     
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    Well deserved and Your right of course.
     
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    @Unlucky you really should chill out fella. Some play, some really live it, but it doesn't require the Thought Police to bust down the door and thrust the pedant card around. you and i have had this chat before and if males and Females feel there are Superior and inferior dynamics in play, who's to say the rules say NO! There is only one rule in my playbook; Anything safe and legal goes. And yes, i do believe there are Superior Females on this planet and i would always feel lucky to be able to serve them as they see fit. Live and let live eh!
     
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