Too much fantasy

Yes, that is my craving too! I not pierced yet, but would do this for the right Woman/Mistress. Be trained to wear a chastity device until it is permanent 24/7/365. Feel a real and strong bound with her.

 

It's great but also..... challenging.

 

It would be better to have a PA piercing _before_ finding your perfect Owner. It would also make secure, 24/7/365 chastity a real possibility.
And, yes, being permanently locked by someone special can result in a very deep emotional bond.

 

Hello Gloria's, thank for your advice. The idea of walking into a piercing shop with my Mistress/Owner who then explains to the piercer exactly what she wants and why she wants it would be a huge turn on. Furthermore, it would also be a real milestone in the process leading up to permanently wearing a serious and secure chastity device 24/7/365....Therefore, I am very curious about your reasons for already having a PA before finding my perfect owner?

 

I recommended getting pierced before finding a Mistress/Owner for her convenience: She could lock you up immediately, instead of having to wait several weeks for your piercing to heal and be securely fitted with a secure chastity device.

 

I’m confused by the number of people who talk here about getting a PA, or not getting a PA, as if it’s some sort of big deal - like having a vasectomy or facelift. It’s not, it’s like getting your ear pierced, except it’s your penis not your ear.

 

Also, why is there so much stuff about piercings and airport scanners on this thread? I thought it was meant to be people whining on about how other people might be making things up.

 

It would be a sad thing indeed if people’s fantasies were about chickening out of piercings and groundless anxieties about airport security… maybe that’s all that’s left once the made up stuff has been redacted.

 

I think the point is there's a place for fantasy and places for actual concerns and questions regarding chasity. There's even a members fiction section here. So why post fantasy as real.

 

Yes point taken, but what I’m saying is, there are places for dithering about piercings and needlessly fretting about airports, so why post them in the thread specifically for interminable moaning about the prevalence of bullshit?

 

See you call it moaning but its valid. You want fantasy and literotica theres 1000s of sites for that. This is even a pinned post meaning it must be a valid complaint. So perhaps moaning is wrong word.

 

Also, it’s pretty obvious why people might post fantasy as real: it’s because they get off on the discussion that follows.

 

Have you read “The Oxen”, a poem by Thomas Hardy?

 

Can't say I have though i don't see how it takes away from the validity that fantasy all over the place is annoying here.

 

It’s one of my favourite poems. Hardy talks about his absolute childhood belief in the Christmas story, how adulthood and modernity erode that sort of naive faith, and how he yearns to recapture it. Likewise I think sometimes people might want to enjoy the suspension of disbelief about some of the more colourful accounts in CM and hope they’re true.
For example, there’s a woman who sometimes posts about how she pitilessly imposes total chastity on her besotted husband despite his pleas for release, using some form of blackmail and emotional manipulation. It’s pretty implausible but very hot - and the appeal lies precisely in the idea that it’s really happening. If someone interjects on the thread saying “you’re just some bloke having a wank” it spoils it.

 

THE OXEN

Christmas Eve, and twelve of the clock.
“Now they are all on their knees,”
An elder said as we sat in a flock
By the embers in hearthside ease.

We pictured the meek mild creatures where
They dwelt in their strawy pen,
Nor did it occur to one of us there
To doubt they were kneeling then.

So fair a fancy few would weave
In these years! Yet, I feel,
If someone said on Christmas Eve,
“Come; see the oxen kneel,

“In the lonely barton by yonder coomb
Our childhood used to know,”
I should go with him in the gloom,
Hoping it might be so.

 

It all goes back to this is meant to be a site helpful to men in chasity, not equivalent of literotica. There's quite possibly thousands of sites for those purposes and to suspend disbelief. So again too much fantasy is more then relevant as a concern.

 

that’s what it is for YOU. For others it may be something different.
Are you suggesting I’m not a “man in chastity”? I find posts of questionable veracity pretty helpful.

 

I didn’t ONLY describe it as moaning. I also used the word “whining”: “the action of complaining in a feeble or petulant way” (Oxford English Dictionary).
Is that better?

 

Read the charter for men in chasity. Not a place to post your literotica fantasy.

 

I don’t. My posts are honest accounts of my experience. But at your suggestion I did re-read the charter and didn’t find any reference to posts HAVING to be truthful… can you elucidate?
For that matter I didn’t find a reference to this being a site for “men in chastity” - in fact it’s clearly for women too, and people who are merely curious.
Unless there’s some other charter that I haven’t found.

 

You pass my bs filter!

 

Yeah that one made me smile too…!

 

“…when a person is lucky enough to live inside a story, to live inside an imaginary world, the pains of this world disappear. For as long as the story goes on, reality no longer exists.”
- Paul Auster

 

Every one has a story, are some embellished of course they could be, but being an active member of plenty of BDSM communities. I have seen and taken part in some things I felt I would never see or do or read about and felt they were fake, but there it was. I remember a party in Ohio, Mistress took me to, where I was entered by her into a whip contest. What sub fell first took me months to recover the same party for a demo, a submissive was crucified on a cross, Or his hands nailed to it. So, do I take everything with a grain of salt, yes? But I have also witnessed a lot that, I thought, could not be done to the human body. To include my own, good luck on your search.