Too much fantasy

What real experiences and accounts are you interested in?

 

While this site is full of people writing jerk off fantasies or pretending they are practicing chastity because their dick is locked up while ignoring all of the sexual stuff they are doing at the same time, I'm not sure if there is anywhere on the internet not infested with people full of shit.

If you care to stick around, I'd suggest liberal use of the ignore feature, don't look through "new profile posts", and assume anything in the "related kinks" subforum should probably be posted in the member fiction subforum. I also personally avoid the Introductions subforum because I find myself constantly rolling my eyes.

 

Okay, here’s real for you:
I do nearly all of the housework and don’t have sex with my wife. How’s that for real?

 

I don’t read many of the threads as not only a bunch fake. But a bunch of stuff is just dreadfully boring.

That said, some discussions aren’t. So it’s worth it to skim through and find them.

Personally, I’ve been here a long time. I
Almost from the beginning actually.

It does seem to ebb and flow.

 

I agree that unrealistic fiction draws me out of a story and can be a turn off.

This is somewhat selfish, but if you have a highly trained bull shit detector... which I value... could you read this semi-autobiographical story I wrote Full Body Examination

Let me know when you think I deviated from reality into fantasy. This is for fun.

Anyway I agree there’s no reason to pass off fiction as truth.

 

I will say I’ve read more than a few posts that were more like a penthouse letter than an accurate account.

That being said, you can normally spot them right away. They can’t seem to help themselves, they join and within a week seem to go from trying to find a cage to their wives never allowing another orgasm, riveting their cage, dressing them in lingerie, and making them clean up after a cuckold experience.

My only problem is when they fool me by taking it slow and use the long con. Then it’s like dang you got me.

But as stated, this is online, you are going to have to weed out a lot, but if you are interested in a common community, it’s part of the deal.

 

Nothing I've posted on Chastity Mansion is fantasy

 

Also a quick look at who’s posted something and how long they have been a member can (some notable instances excepted...) be a good way of weeding out the porkies.

 

Just realised your not in the UK!
^
Porky Pies is Cockney slang for Lies.
"Stop tellin' me Porkies!" One of the most well known slangs throughout London and the UK.

 

I think another possible way is whether the poster replies to a question. I'm not talking about probing or rude questions: more about honest questions. For example, like asking for clarification. If there is no reply to your query then that may be indicative of a fantasiser. In my experience liars or fantasisers haven't thought of or can't be bothered with the detail. Whereas, if it's a true event the detail is usually easily available for them from their experience: they don't have to create detail; unlike the fantasiser who now needs to put in the extra work.
Another explanation maybe they are just plain ignorant and can't be bothered replying. Anyway, at least you can note their username and ignore any future posts. Particularly, if they have done this before.

 

When you are into chastity long enough so it becomes a lifestyle, it is easy to spot and differentiate fantasy from reality.

 

Great thread
This is something that I was thinking for a while and one thread got so bad that I asked for an photo of the outfit and I have not heard of that person again, so I think we need to ask members for more photos or the person themselves post more photos just to keep it more real.
And to be honest I am crap at seeing the real from the fantasy.️

 

My posts are real.
And yes in reality it all goes slowly.
It goes at her speed.
Although each step she takes is fun sometimes life gets in the way...
The fantasy stories might set some irrational expectations to the one that believe them.

 

I'm glad this thread has come along.

My wife and I got off to a great start in chastity where I have been locked up for the most part of two months and I started to document this in a journal. Mainly I've documented the exciting parts but most of the time it's me locked, doing chores around the house and doting around my wife in between juggling vanilla family life.

This is just a cheap excuse for the current situation of mine I know this and I have learned my lesson here. So Having read the "success" of other people in relatively short spaces of time and whether or not they are true I have been stupid lately and tried to rush along our own journey rather than let it evolve and allow my wife to find herself and basically I've ended up pissing her off.

 

Sometimes it's not easy to back off. My Wife is sensitive to this.

 

Hopefully for the many steps forward we have taken this is just a few steps back and we can get back on track. Generally I'm not at all into forums etc but I stumbled across CM and new it was what I was looking for. I have found it useful, informative and encouraging.

 

Just signed up to sell hell yes to this.

I’ve went with my fiancée and got pierced 8 months ago, then took time to take care of this piercing and stretch it till it’s a useable security measure.

Then ordering and reordering a device until it fits perfectly.

So it’s not a quick thing to basically acheive something that would cost you money if you removed it your self!

 

There are many of us here who are living real lives in real relationships using chastity to become closer to our wives and more fulfilled in our relatuonships. And pretty much all of the Verified women are sharing real experiences and struggles and successes.

 

If you think what you're reading isn't very likely, it probably isn't. Common sense. However, my experience with BDSM boards is that every BDSM board attracts people who write ficition, or very unlikely experiences they somehow survived with only pleasure and not having to call 911.

So going to another board, will not be likely to solve your problem. The better solution is to ignore those who post too much fiction and move on.

 

Same here, but there are a lot which do look questionable.

 

Everything is genuine about my postings etc-like a post above, my life mainly consists of housework and being locked but my wife had said things even today that would sound like my fantasy! Having a bullshit detector for me is just what you should be asking/doing all the time imo. Data analysis competence, very much a modern skill that's required cos Internet etc

 

I have lots of time on my hands, I haven’t been able to do much around the house, I had rotator cuff surgery four months ago, so, my Wife has given me other tasks. However most of our together exploits take place between 5 and 6am and then 9 and 10pm on a week day, and whenever we can from Friday to Monday morning. We have kids, so the time we spend with our teen and two tweens is edited out...... weekends our activities are mostly between 6 and 9am....... and then when the kids go to bed.

So our lifestyle might sound exciting, and it can be, but mostly it’s somewhat dull. I only post the interesting bits to avoid boring the crap out of y’all