Our Chastiversary - not of me being continually locked but of her willingness to play this game and hold my key. It has become such a normal part of our sex lives I just long to be caged again when I'm let out. I thought about getting her some roses to celebrate, maybe take her out for dinner but what else have you done to show appreciation for your wonderful wife/keyholder?
Congratulations!!!! I agree with the roses and a nice dinner. I'm sure you give her regular massages, but maybe you can add a twist of two? For instance, if you don't have a hot tub at your house/apartment, maybe you could spend the night in a hotel which has a private hot tub in their rooms? Not always easy to find, but I was able to find one about a 1/2 hour away from where we live. With or without the hot tub, find some way of making her massage special. Use a massage oil, or a different scent oil than usual, candle lit around the room, a delicate snack available for later in the night (such as chocolate covered strawberries, or even just chocolates). A bottle or two of her favorite "adult beverage" if she has one, or her favorite beverage in general. Wake up early enough in the morning so that she will awaken to your gentle touch all over her body. Obviously do whatever she want to do as far as intimacy goes. Be prepared to submit to her in any she might like, if she enjoys CBT, spanking, whipping, etc. I know work schedules might interfere with plans like that, but perhaps you could postpone the BIG celebration until Friday night? Good Luck, and I'm looking forward to reading how things went!!! ~subrick
Massage is a great suggestion. Also, most women love manicures and pedicures. Find a salon that will serve her a glass of wine while they massage her hands and feet. Then, take her shopping for summer sandals to show off those pretty toes. Serious pampering is in order.
Great milestone! Like others have said, give her whatever type of massage she likes. While doing it, thank her for being your keyholder and ask her what else she wants (besides your love and gratitilude). Wait a minute... I usually tell my friends to do the opposite of what I do 'cause I always muck it up. In that case I can only offer congrats!
Congratulations. My I suggestion to you comes from a book called the 5 love languages. Ask her what are the top 2 she likes and work on that. Words of Affirmation - Saying supportive things to your partner Acts of Service - Doing helpful things for your partner Receiving Gifts - Giving your partner gifts that tell them you were thinking about them Quality Time - Spending meaningful time with your partner Physical Touch - Being close to and caressed by your partner Last note: read the book and remember that she choices can change over time.