So I skipped Locktober because that seems to require a partner. Which I have. But between jobs and what not.... it got complicated. But NOvember seems like it's about self discipline. At least in my mind. A couple of questions. If one were to explore anally in NOvember, and things went, um... *well* does that seem like a cheat? Basically, what are we calling the rules?
Outside of the BDSM circles, it's actually called "No Nut November" (nice alliteration btw). So I think it's safe to say the only real rule is . . . don't nut. Don't cum. Don't have an orgasm by any method Masturbation and/or sex isn't entirely off the table, but the most you would be allowed to do with that is edge yourself. And the chances that goes too far is very likely. So would not recommend
Missed Locktober 2023 for various reasons but I'm planning on doing my best in NO-vember. (Not a fan of "No Nut November".)
I didn't know nut meant cum to be honest. To answer the question, yes cumming by any means strikes me as against the spirit of the month.
I can see that being the spirit of the month. How about having anal without reaching climax? (Which can happen with a plug.)
I mean the guidelines seem pretty self explanatory don't get off. If you're going to participate by choice why bother trying to circumvent what the whole thing is about.
Last year, I made it through Locktober and most of NOvember self locked and unpartnered. It wasn't easy but achieving it with self discipline was well worthwhile.
as we are doing anything of this cause of "health" XD - we are doing this cause we are all bunch of perverts
I don't think we're perverts, I think we're more sexually active than the mainstream vanilla frigid missionaries out there. I say pull out that stick and shove in a dildo.