My husband RP and I have been fairly free and open about sex in our relationship since the beginning. We have experienced much kink both alone and together. This Chastity Thing, well, new territory and a whole other level of honesty and trust. About 2 months ago while talking about sex, he brought up chastity and being caged. I had no idea he was interested in it at all. It was an exciting revelation. I am not shy about sex. I'm just not shy about most things in life. He is shy. No one would guess this as he wears an effective mask in his day to day life that serves him well. After we had that discussion, other things came tumbling out. He shared his sexual secrets and I felt honored that he was able to tell me things he had told no one. Ever. I had some experience with male chastity with one of my Sissie Boys years ago. He asked me to be his Key Holder for 2 weeks as he wanted to try it out. He was single, worked as an administrative assistant and had decided to explore his Sissy side when we met through one of my ads. I enjoyed our sexual play, and when he asked me to hold that key, I knew it was a big deal. I held Christine's key for 2 weeks. The key was placed in my jewelry box and I would look at it each day with some wonder. When the 2 weeks were up and he came over I was of 2 minds. Part of me wanted to rush and get the key and return it to him. Part of me wanted to never give it back. I think Christine could see this on my face. Suddenly he exploded into very loud laughter. "You enjoyed having that key didn't you?" he asked finally. Yes. Yes I did. I only saw Christine a few more times after that. He had found a girlfriend who seemed open to his femme side and I was really happy for him. Through all of this, I was married to RP. I didn't share everything I did with him - I honestly thought it might bore him! Little did I know, I was so wrong. When RP told me his desire to be caged I thrilled. Woot! Yes! And so began our journey. I have a collection of devices now. I'm sure most of us do. When you start, you don't know what will work and what won't or even what type of device would be most desirable. Once we had tried several devices and after I had done a lot of reading and had finally stumbled across Mature Metal's cages I was sure that was the answer. The Jail Bird, affectionately known as Jane, arrived 9 days ago. RP has been locked in it ever since. I wear the key on a 1940's vintage sterling anchor chain around my neck all the time. The spare key is locked in our safe, inside a sealed envelope with my signature written across the flap -- as was suggested by RP. Life continues to blossom for us.