The Chasity Paradox: Is Being a KH Exhausting for a Wife?

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    Too hilarious!
     
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    I disagree. If a lawbreaker turns themselves in and gets jail time it's still real jail! I suggest the problem is too many women set bail to low or think incarceration is a bad idea and prefer to ignore the guilt.
     
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    Depends how you look at the crime. If you are admitting it because you want to be detained… then it it is still fulfilment.
    More crimes committed during the winter months as the homeless would prefer the sanctuary of prison than their sad life of freedom during the colder months. o_O
     
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    Yes to facilitation, but when she decides you are better off that way, there are times that it flips and it is her resolve and commitment that gets you through. BCWYWF Sometimes we bite off more than we can chew. Philosophically speaking it is definitely facilitation if the chastie suggested it in the first place.
     
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    Very well said, as are some of other comments here. I figure that since going back into chastity, I am "gifting" my wife something like an average of 2 hours a day for things she used to do that I now do. If this is a result of chastity, the giving instead of the taking, then chastity should not be exhausting for the KH. if on the other hand you are doing it for the tease and denial, chastity talk, or anything that is going to add to rather than subtract from your KH's daily workload, then heck yes, chastity can be seen as exhausting for her. There is obviously a lot more to it than that, but to me, that is the net net.
     
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