Switch from dom to sub.

Been married 5 years, together for 10. Have always been the dominant of the relationship, in terms of the bedroom. As of a few months ago the wife got with one of her gay couple friends. They introduced her to the idea of chastity and she took a liking to the idea. She has always had a bit of a dominant side herself. But usually I'll always claim that spot.

Anyways, we started a about 2 months ago. First day was probably the hardest day. My dick is almost twice the size of the cage she bought when it's hard. With it squeezing my shaft basically indefinitely I was always horny and began being very hands on affectionate with the wife. Attempting to go back to my dom ways. Forgetting my dick was incapacitated at the moment.

Funny enough she would go back to her sub ways, we were definitely confused in the beginning.

To skip ahead, we finally got to a week straight. No bdsm stuff. Basically vanilla chastity/roll reversal.

As I have said to some of you in the chat though. I got my first experience in "upsetting the mistress" as one person put it. Basically was to get out after 7 days. Upset her. Then went another 6 days locked. Usually taking days off in between unlocking. However that night after I exploded in her. She told me to go back in.

Was stuck in it for another 4 days. Leading to today. Am finally free and hope to stay that way at least a day or two.

I will say, even though I've always leaned to the dominant side. Chastity is changing my mindset for sure. So be careful other dom guys. I'm still very much wanting to lead. But now find myself wanting to serve more.

Will updating as time progresses.

 

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Thank you! Yeah it's gonna take some getting used to. Don't know if it'll stick but time will tell. Im fine with the switch but wouldn't mind going back to the old ways lol