Hi all I had heard about this site from Chaster and felt it was time I checked it out. I am getting on a bit now and have no PIV and haven't for 12 years or more due to my partner's total lack of interest after the menopause. I love BDSM as a submissive , nothing can top full inescapable bondage as a turn on for me. Serving a Mistress in whatever manner she dictates as well. I have dabbled with chastity for about 10 years but never till the last month or two have I had a chastity that I could wear all day. Since finding one though the world has expanded to include a locked me for longer periods of time. Ideally I would love my partner to be my kh but that just will not work as she is turned off to anything remotely intimate with even a hint of sexuality. I am not like so many here looking to be in permanent chastity and currently am unlocked every night for bed. I am looking for some connection with a key holder who like me is not seeking permanent chastity but someone who wants to explore and challenge chastity. Surely not everyone here is intent on surrendering their c&b to the chastity. This is the only life we get I want to enjoy and live it to the full. Polemanme