Love my girlfriend and now my keyholder!

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    Hello all, this is my first post here. I've been with my girlfriend for over two years, and we are mostly long distance. We call each other frequently and have a lot of fun together. We should be closing the distance in the next year.

    A few months back, I told her about chastity and showed her the Neocities website. She loves me a lot and was willing to give it a go. Fast forward to now, we are currently practicing weekend locks where she keeps me locked (we are using Chaster for that, which is awesome btw) for about 1-3 days.

    I am having the time of my life and am so happy I told her about this and that she agreed to try it. I never would have thought I'd enjoy this so much, especially since I used to be very dominant—I'm tall and muscular.

    I just wanted to publicly appreciate her and maybe encourage some men here to talk to their partners about this. I'm currently writing this locked with one more day to go, feeling super happy and excited (maybe a tiny bit scared, haha) about what the future holds. Take care, everyone, and have fun! :love::lock::key:
     
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    Congratulations!
     
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    Welcome to the mansion and good luck.
     
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    Hello there and welcome!

    As someone who managed to have the conversation with his partner a few weeks back, I know that I really like what its done for us so far and could never have envisioned it going as well as it has.

    Sure it might seem like a difficult talk to have in the very beginning, but if you know for sure this is something you want to explore in your relationship then just go for it I’d say and take the risk. Based on my own experience and other stories that I’ve read on here, more often then not you’ll find yourself pleasantly surprised by your partner’s reaction.
     
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    Well done and good luck!
     
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    PornAddict103 Happily addicted to Tease & Denial

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    Hello, welcome to the Mansion. I'd like to recommend that you gradually increase your lockup times over time and when you 2 finally get together full time, explore options and new fetish ideas to make your chastity both fun & frustrating at the same time. I myself went into chastity, as a means of self control because I have serious jerking habit, but it quickly turned into a Tease & Denial fetish and I'm enjoying the constant horniness and endless frustration from long term lockups. Since I have no keyholder, I watch porn to tease and deny myself literally every day. Yes, like you I was nervous AF when I first started but chastity is so addicting that I much prefer to stay locked up 24/7 even when nothing's happening. It took months of steady progress to get to where I am now, but I did it incrementally and not all at once. I recommend you follow that to make your chastity journey easy to further progress it into your ultimate fantasy.
     
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    Fantastic read and big respect your girlfriend was open for it can only get better from here. Let her have control don’t push own needs too much pamper her for keeping you locked and she will like it even more.
     
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    Welcome. Good luck with it
     
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