Anyone ever assume they'd be unlocked and allowed an O for a special occasion? Lesson learned. I assumed I'd be unlocked for Father's day O. Never assume.
For my anniversary this year(30 years) I was told for three weeks that I would get to cum on that day...So assumed that I was going to. Well, that day came and went, and nothing. My Wife(KH) had me wrapped around her finger. She would ask me to do little thing around the house thinking if I did them, I would get my reward. I lost count of the orgasms she had. Foot rubs, ass kissing and licking. About a week after I was allowed to cum. So yes...Never assume anything...
I was told 'for Father's day you will be allowed to look at your Penis in the cage' Nope never assume
Last year, I had one of those "milestone" birthdays. After having been locked and denied for three or four straight months, I expected that Mrs Edge would unlock me for an evening of pleasure. Instead, I was allowed to pleasure her orally, and then again with my strapon (a nice "fauxking", as @Billus would say). She told me *that* was my present, and has left me locked since.
Same here. I no longer have any expectations of being released. She'll tease me with "how long has it been"? "you probably could use a release" etc. I'm not allowed to ask for a release or to be let out of my cage. Big no no here for that.
Well, our recent holiday came (as did Mrs Chaste) and went! No orgasm for me! Then when we got home it was my birthday, hurrah!!! No orgasm for me then either! Still Father's day on Sunday and I'm the best Daddy ever! Lovely treat of roast dinner cooked by my daughter with home made Yorkshire's! And what about a treat from Mrs Chaste? A damn good tease (still locked of course) but no orgasm! Hmm!
Just tell yourself all special occassions ought to be all about her. Tell her you feel that way too.... its a good way to make her feel positive.. which is seldom a bad thing. Though BCWYWF We were just talking generally once about christmas and birthdays etc. We came to the conclusion that it would be better and show more respect for her if I were not to cum within a month of any special occassions. When we worked it out that left Mid-June to Mid-September .. or as only full months count I'm told July and August.. which is Summer and the Dry Season so they are out too which when you look it at that way there really is not a suitable time for me having orgasms. IF we think of that way. Almost everytime we discuss anything related to TTTWD permanent denial gets brought up in someway. She did once say and has repeated it since When or IF my denial becomes permanent I will not be told and will have to work it out for myself. I find that a rather daunting andan ironically hot prospect.
I would not be very pleased if Kadira did this to me. I love chastity and love being denied, but if she told me to expect a release and then did not follow through we would be having a long talk.
What was I to do?...My Wife(KH) makes the rules. My penis is locked and she has the key. She does it all the time. She'll tell me..."Maybe Friday of Saturday"...Then nothing...She is in control. I cum when she wants me to.
On the topic of actually being told you will have a release, especially for a special occasion, and then denied: Isn't it better that she is at least thinking of you, even if just in the form of fucking with your head, than leaving you locked and ignored and very well forgetting about you (and your gift of denial to her)? Her acceptance of your denial is a gift to you. Your denial is a gift to her. Any form of attention by her to your chastity is to be cherished, regardless of how frustrating it may be for you... Better to keep things interesting I think.