something is not right

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    I had to be unlocked for 3 weeks due to medical reasons, i felt like something was not right like being incomplete. I was so happy when my wife locked me back up. Does anyone else have the same feeling when unlocked?
     
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    OMG yes!
    It feels great for a day or so to be "free" but I miss being in my cage.

    For me, I feel secure and loved. My wife loves me either way but her locking me in my cage is special. She has said many times that she's protecting me. I feel so loved being locked up. I know that sounds strange but it's the truth.

    You're not alone lucky1. many of are the same way. Be thankful she locks you up. I always thank my wife when she's done cinching my (her) lock and putting a security tag on me. She always says "you're welcome"

    It's a wonderful lifestyle and great for marriages
     
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    When you wear the cage all the time, it's like you've taken off your wedding ring. There is simply something missing!
     
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    I agree it is a special feeling of love. there is no sound like the click of the lock to make me melt. yes i do thank her all the time. It does make for great marriages.
     
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    my one dont click cos it inside the cage bits.
     
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    Yes. I was recently unlocked for about a week. I just about went insane. I didn't miss the discomfort, but I missed the constant reminder that I am absolutely hers. It's like a wedding ring, except more noticeable.

    Locked again now, and so completely happy with my wonderful wife that I can't even think straight.
     
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    i get this feeling too. alway feels like something is missing but when it goes back on, everything seems right again
     
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    They need to put some tiny electronics and speaker into the ring so it plays the click sound electronically!
     
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    giggle. :) it cud play a little song as well.
     
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    It is funny how when we've been locked, if even only off and on, that we miss being in chastity when we aren't! I know it's the same for me!!
     
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    Mary had a little....
     
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    Yes i have been at this stage as well, Being locked is special. Even when you are not in proximity of your Mistress, you know she still has control of you.

    I was a bad girls and was ordered not to remove the cage for 4 days. The 3 days i do not see my Mistress every week. Plus the evening before.

    I developed an infection and could not wear the device for about a week afterwards, because i could not wash properly with the cage locked on permanently. Mistress ordered me to leave the cage off till i was recovered and almost reluctantly i did as i was told.

    The annoying part is I was 1 week short of 3 months locked. Now of course I have done another 3 months, approaching four, I can remove it at bedtime for washing before bed and after washing in the morning, then it has to go back on for the rest of the day.

    I have never felt the urge to cheat while i am unlocked. I know my owner now has control of that area of my body, Well i asked her to take complete control of me and she has done just that. Anyway i will do nothing to spoil what we have achieved in nearly 7 months together.
     
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    I do feel that way initially, after i've been locked for a long period. But then i get to where i enjoy being free, reminds myself of how it was before. But after a while, urge returns to be locked fully again. I can't seem to avoid it. The feeling when it is locked tightly, holding your cock, is hard to describe or refuse.
     
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    If you got another cage and then had 2 you cud take it off and have a proper wash and then put the other cage on and then wash the first cage all nice and then not get infect. that what i am allow. and the cage is only off for a teeny bit.
     
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    Time ago, when we locked up for shorter periods, I too had those "it's not right" feelings when I was left unlocked.

    I quickly worked out that she must have been feeling exactly the same when I either suggested she might want to lock me up again, or just presented her with the padlock to click shut, as when I did, it was always greeted with a huge grin. She never ever declined my offer to be re-locked up.

    And now? I never get those feelings.
    As soon as whatever required me to be unlocked is over, I get locked back up.
     
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    I did not have that option. I was locked in for four days as a punishment. I do not think either if us realised the consequences. Problem now solved as i am allowed to remove the device to wash it and me before i go back in.
     
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    I feel like i'm being naked whitout the cage. I take it off before bed becauset he pain is unbearable early morning. Its my first cage, i tought i have M size when i bought it but clearly i need smaller then M because its too easy to remove it. But even with all this its just hurts too bad at night but i put it back in the morning after shower.
     
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    please how long have you been in a cage. cos it get better after a bit but im sorry it hurts you
     
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    Approximately a month, wearing daily during the day. I slept few days with it but i couldn't rest right. I had to get up at 5am and do some steps in the apartment. The pain is at the back of the scrotum only, like it stings, when checked, skin is red in that area. It happends only if i sleep with it so i decided to take it off before bed.
     
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    That's why these forums are here. Other people can help with their own experiences ...

    I get that same burning thing, too, if I don't use any lubrication. If you're wearing steel, then any lube will work, including petroleum jelly. With other materials, you have to be more careful, because oil-based lube may damage the material.

    Also, do a good job drying your skin after you shower, after you pee, etc.

    Experiment with some lotions, as well.

    And good luck!
     
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    i agree with true42 , you have to keep well lubricated until you get accustomed to it. Do not give up.
     
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    ooh thats prob cos some men keep get a hard willy when they sleep cos they prob think bout sex a lot and that make your ring go tigt.
     
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    2 things - not only lubrication as as been suggested, but also cage length /girth plays a part. If your penis has room to expand during a nocturnal erection, this pushes the ring forward and emphasizes the burning. Shorter cages don't allow the erection to form in the cage itself and this helps alleviate the issue. Usually, if it happens, get up and pee, this helps resolve night time erections too.
     
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    It does pushes when errection. The penis is indeed small but its a heavy grower. The cage itself is too big, even the base ring, sometimes balls slipping behind base ring on weird motions. Thinking of getting holy trainer nub.
    Sorry for off topic.
     
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    The 5 O'Clock burning scrotum is one of the best feelings you can have, it acts as a reminder or your situation and personal the more it hurts the more is turns me on.

    Don't fear or dread it, embrace it as a good thing, if I have to get up a 5 to wee and sort myself out then it's a small price to pay to make sure my Goddess is happy.
     
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