So first a little background info. We’v been together for 14 yrs now and married for 9yrs. Our relationship has always been kinky with the last 2 years some intense bdsm and shibari, with me as a Dom and rope top. But i have allways had a thing for chastity and have bought some cages years ago but my Wife never felt something for the whole thing. In our kinks she is allways submissive, she knew that strictly speaking i am a switch. Now flash forward to 3 days ago, we were having some great sex and suddenly she mentioned she read some stuff about locktober on Fetlife and asked what it was all about. So i explained it and suddenly she said it sounded interesting and asked me if i wanted it. So i answered YES but she didn’t react to my verry clear anwser. I did not think much about it since she never had any interest in the whole chastity thing and I continued having great sex. The next day at work i called my Wife during a break, and at the end of our talk she said: “that whole chastity thing we talked about, i might give it a try” She said she loved me and was waiting for me to get home. When I got home she was allready in bed so I joined her but she was still awake and said she tought about it and even made a list with rules. I intantly got hard just from the mentioning about a list of rules. I asked if i could read them and she said no. First I want great sex, she said. After about half an hour, she was on top and she slowed down and said this would be the last time i would be able to enjoy this because I would get locked up. She pointed to my nightstand where I saw my holytrainer. I looked back at her and saw a develish smile, then I realised what was gooing to happen and instantly I had and intense orgasm. She laughed and said to clean myself up and get back on the bed. Then she locked me in my cage with my help because she never done it before. Good boy she said, now you can hear the rules. A quick summary of my rules: - first 7 days no rewards can be earned, no release only for cleaning done by the Wife with ice cold water. - from day 8 I can earn pleasure but no sooner than day 14 I will receive pleasure. But no PIV or O. - the 29th we are going to a swingers club with friends and that will be the only opportunity to have PIV / O with my Wife - I must pleasure her 3x a week (she allready changed it to daily) - since we allready had an open relationship she will get sex with her fwb, but now I will be there also (per my request) but blindfolded. - during work I must text her in the morning and in the evening Today we ordered a decent strapon so I can penetrate her when locked up. So as of 2 days ago I am locked and not sooner than 12 days from now I might receive an edging. All that I can say now I’m exited about our new adventure and She is finding her role in it to. Today She said she’s starting to like it. I will keep you all updated on the start off this new adventure. (ps: sorry for typo’s, English is not my native language.)
So a little update. Last night we had a good talk about the whole adventure. So my Wife likes the fact that my sexual energy now completely focuses toward her and her pleasure but she said the cage itself doesn’t turn her on . She likes it I’m verry more toughtfull to her but she really likes PIV a lot and misses it. (So do I). So I told her she can stop and release me at her command to go back and have vanilla sex. To my surprise she said that she doesn’t want that because she would disappoint me and herself to. So right now I stay locked
My wife has similar feelings, but she found a very devilish solution. When I’m locked for a while, she will unlock me for PIV but order me not to come. When I get close and need to pause to maintain my composure, she will order me to give her a certain number of hard thrusts. It is quite challenging, but incredibly fun for both of us.