Self locking

1. Make sure the device is secure, a steel waist belt will increase security and relive the weight of the device.
2. The lock must be tamper proof and secure.
2. The key; 1 you could mail it to yourself 2. Put in a timed safe. There must be lot of other ways and I am sure others will come forward, (come - poor choice of words)

 

Get a keysafe, set a random combination then mix up all the dials. I accidentially did this one time and it took ages going from 0000 upwards until I got to the correct combination.

You can also use EmlaLock Chastity Belt Time Delay Keyholding Service or Chaster - The ultimate chastity experience with a keysafe for fun locking.

 

I was imposing self-lock in my college days. I would leave the key in the cabinet and go about the usual routine: lectures, assignment, meals, swimming.. ok, my room-mate didnt play any tricks on me disappearing the key.. he just couldnt understand my kink to chastity and addiction to masturbation. Dirty thoughts came and gone every 30mins.. and i would perform self punishing pushups.. a day without masturbation was a day of victory.. It was compeling.. it was addictive.. it destroyed my grades. I needed help actually.
Ok, There was no anonymous masturbators sharing group those days.

 

Hello,
I use an electronic lock (they are about $25 - $30 on Amazon) and lock the keys in a steal box. That way, though I COULD open the box, it'll cost me $30 to get a new lock, if I choose to cut off the one that's on there.

 

I sent both of the keys to my chastity device to my key holder on Jan 4th (had been locked since December 31, 2021) She lives 4+ hours away and it's been nearly 200 days!! We have never met except for online or in chat apps! I was so lucky she is a super great Key Holder! I am so happy! Only two wet dreams since I locked up, can't say it hasn't been really hard some days but so worth it!

 

If it's,

You may need a smaller cage!

 

"hard" as in emotionally hard , never physically hard or erect, no no no! That is not allowed by my Key Holder! Sorry if I mislead you!

 

Nah, just making sport with a play on words, good luck and hope you enjoy your stay here.
I may be a little goofy, but never mean!

 

Stick with it, go do something else to take your mind off it, go for a walk, read a book, ect.

 

I really am committed to going as long as my Key Holder decides is appropriate. I am so pleased with her and I have told her I want to be denied and I am hoping she has the will power to make it happen and she assures me she thinks in years not weeks or months!!!! Mostly love it but I admit there are some tough days! That's exactly why I sent the keys to her, no regret in a weak moment if keys were nearby I might open but now that option isn't there thankfully! As I've mentioned I have done just over 9 months and it was actually quite a disappointment when I was released and was given a ruined O. I actually cried because I knew I made a bad choice! This time my KH will decide and she's already said not at all in 2022 and probably not in 2023 either! This is going to be a memorable experience for sure! My KH is a strong believer in complete denial and only through wet dreams am I given any relief, I've had two of them over the last 200 days.

 

Yep measuring for when your less than excited / flacid is best.

 

I keep getting issues with soreness.

 

You're right about posting both keys but didn't think of that, thankfully they made it! and good luck!!

 

For those who self lock, I highly recommend placing your key(s) in a Kitchen Safe
You can enforce a lockup of up to 10 days (more if you remove the batteries)
If you have an emergency, the safe is plastic, and can be destroyed to get to your key

 

Emlalock and Chaster are also to good options. Like the kitchen safe, my lock box could be broken if I had to and I'd only be out about $15 this is my box: