Returning long term member

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  1. LockedForLife82
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    I’m going to say hi, again.

    I’ve been a member of chastity mansion for many many years, over a decade in fact. going back to the days when the gorgeous mistress watchful was the admin.

    I’ve not been on here much since, as some of the new members during the changeover just seemed to disrupt the community feeling.

    anyway, I’m pleased to say that the forum now seems to have returned to the old pleasant place I remember.

    I’ve been in long term chastity for 12 years and was in many short term lock ups for 3 years before this.

    I will keep this short and sweet.

    over the last 12 years we started with minimum periods of 6 months in chastity and then we worked up by adding an additional 2 months after each release. I was so chuffed when I managed my first full year.

    many way, after we managed to reach 3 years we kinda plateaued a little.

    my lock ups are exactly that. No release. I was in a mature metal jailbird which as many of you know, allows for perfect cleaning and hygiene without the need to be unlocked.

    however, now after many years of chastity, despite what some may say, I have experienced substantial shrinkage and I’ve had to go smaller and smaller each time. This has been pretty much my only reason for being unlocked over the years.

    Now I’m awaiting a micro cage, which should be here in the next few weeks. And I’ve been told that once this arrives my chastity will be permanent, as I can’t get much smaller without going for an inverted cage, which would obviously be impossible to maintain hygiene requirements.

    With this in mind, I have given my full consent, if my keyholder requires to seek and experience the hotwife/ cuckoldress relationship dynamic. I hope she does as I have wanted this for many years, so I can see her sexually pleased and satisfied.

    This however has very little to do with my introduction, it’s just a small insight into our plans for the future.

    I just wanted to share with you all how pleased I am to be back on the forum, and that I hope it will be a positive experience, and if I can offer any help or advice then I look forward to being of assistance.

    I will also be seeking advice on our future plans as we develop our lifestyle further and explore new avenues.

    I will also give an update on the new device once it arrives and I’m adjusted to it.
    It will however be strange, although I’ve had years between releases I always knew I would be unlocked someday in the future. Now the only unlocks I will get will be for medical emergencies, and even then it would have to be really serious as our family doctor is aware of our situation and has offered in depth medical advice in our early days.

    Thanks for your time.
    Chris
     
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    Hello and Welcome back to the Mansion, looking forward to your input on the forums.
     
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    Hi there and welcome back to the mansion!
     
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    Welcome back to the mansion.
     
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    Hello and welcome (back)
     
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    Welcome back to our community. Enjoy.
     
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    Welcome back. I do remember your nick from a while back!
     
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    Welcome back, and I'm delighted to hear your review of the current state of the site. (I'm glad I wasn't around for that bad times.)

    Your commitment to permanent chastity is powerful and generates strong emotional responses in me. Your acceptance of shrinkage suggests to me great strength of character. Thank you for sharing.

    Peace, everyone!
     
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    Welcome back.
     
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    Thank you everyone for your warm welcome. It’s great to be back
     
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    Welcome back. So when you say returning member, the truth is your member didn't fully return?
     
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    Very happy that you decided to return. I am newer to this group and to Chastity in general. But it has just become part of my life. My wife/KH loves it too. Curious question.... what were the groups like that made you stop visiting the site? Alot of Bots and fakes I assume?
     
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    Hello and welcome back. I hope you don’t mind as I and my wife/kh are new to this that I started to following you for tips on chastity and your experiences.
     
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    The site went very bitchy and everyone was a keyboard warrior and an instant expert that was giving bad advice and posting derogatory comments. I seen many getting put down for asking questions when all they needed was just a little guidance and advice. It wasn’t something I wanted to be a part of. But now it seems like we’ve a decent bunch and the new admin are doing a great job. It’s great to see people helping each other out again now.
     
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    always happy to help where I can. Thanks for the follow, I’ll give you a return follow
     
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    I'm glad I missed that part of the history.

    I am always happy to see how helpful and welcoming this group is. It's good to have an experienced person come back. It's also always good to see people who have newly discovered chastity or the chastity community.
     
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    I honestly think for the most part is a pretty helpful bunch of people on here. But you do still see some nasty comments from time to time. Upsetting but it does still exist. At least I have not seen much of it thank goodness. We do need to stick together during our journeys. After all we are a small group of men that enjoy this lifestyle.
     
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