PA Question Especially NEED Ladies Opinion

We have been off and on again with chastity play for the last 10 or so years, but given the state of my ED at this point, it just seems more purposeful now. Plus, she actually likes the look of genital jewelry, so that is a plus. I have been caged since mid November of 2019, so this really is where life is at this point... it’s all good.

 

Compliments to will take a pa. If you already take a pa for security reasons, than please consider also to choose a device with a recessed screw, any padlock or pin tumbler lock can be opened easily. Unfortunately there only a few manufacturers that offer pa devices with recessed screw lock. Ms Lori is a classic but a little bit expensive & the weight of the cages is considerable & takes some getting used to. Another good & light weight device is the pa version of the contender of male chastity now

Anyway, if anything is healed well & you be locked in a secure & well fitting device, than you have a great time ahead

All the best

Chris

 

I don’t have a PA piercing nor does my wife really want me to get one. Not that we are adverse to piercings, she has multiple ones in her ear and one in her navel. I have never been able to escape since we switched to metal and not for a lack of trying.

we do have friends where the husband in pierced and they switch back and forth between devices supporting a hook or a ring. She prefers playing with the ring when he is unlocked, she likes to feel The extra sensations during PIV and playing with it during oral. She has offered my wife to experience a try, but other men is not my wife’s cup of tea. I will say it does look kinkier with some of the jewelry or cages, but the end goal is confinement and my wife’s control of my cock.

The downside is he need more maintain energy then me, I have been locked 100 straight days without release and every year subjected to Locktober and Lent. All I need is soap, water, and hair removal liquid for clean up, all the time remaining locked. His maintenance is much higher, he needs to be unlocked for cleaning 2X a week at the minimum.

as far as escaping, any device can be defeated, all you need is bolt cutters, or a vice and a drill.

 

Not knocking the piercing idea, so don't get me wrong. However, there is an alternative. The Lori's #2 with the inside ring works every bit as well for me once it was adjusted correctly. I absolutely cannot pull out of this device even if we unlocked the cage from the ring. I wouldn't believe it if I hadn't tried it personally.

Again, not knocking a piercing and there may be other benefits to one but if it's for security the inside ring works!

My wife found this one and talked me into it. When it arrived we did have to send it back a couple of times to get it right abut now it flat our works. The adjustments only took a week or so, she was quick.

To test it my wife put it on me for a few days to let me get horny and then offered to give me a week straight of blowjobs or sex anytime I want if I could pull out so don't think I didn't really try. I thought I had this one in the bag! I had always thought it would be kind of exciting to have a device I could not pull out of if I really tried but until now that didn't exist. I couldn't believe it! I really didn't expect it to work and I could not pull out. Then she unlocked me from the ring and I still could not pull the poor guy out. When you pull back the ring swivels downward lowering the ring and putting pressure downward behind the head of the penis trapping it in place. Things got real awful fast at that point. She realized what she had and I realized she knew it!

I have never had a device I could not pull out of if I really tried until this one. It's been about a month since I have had it on now and she just recently locked me back up. It's only been a couple of days and the mornings are rough right now. Getting used to sleeping with a device can take me some time but at least this one is comfortable until 5:00 am.

it's a completely different game for me when I really am controlled.

 

I am happy to hear this is working out for you. I would have said it is too soon for you to broach the concept of a piercing when she has just agreed to the cage. Some women agree to things at their partners request however may need time to whole heartedly embrace the idea. Best wishes.

 

I am happy it is working out for you. CM members can contribute all the advice in the world, you know your woman best. Some men allow eagerness to progress their journey to prevent them from hearing their women. It is good that is not the case. Happy travels

 

That is great that she is on board with you for all of this. Fun times for sure. I had a frennum before I started dating my wife. It was actually a turning point in our friendship when the conversation of "how many piercings do you have?" started .... she had double digits ... mostly ears and a belly, nothing down south .... then the question got fired back at me. I could not lie and figured I would drop the chastity devices and desires as well. Good thing I did as that shattered the goody two shoes boring, prude and straight vanilla image she had of me. We got married 8 months later. I tried to sport a Lori Tube on our wedding day but I had ordered the wrong size and it just was too painful to sport the night before and didn't want to be a bloody sore mess for our Wedding Night.

Fast forward 15 years, a PA replaced the frennum somewhere in there. Lots of "Life Stuff" has kept us on and and off again with chastity.... but currently have a fairly new Bijou. Best device I have had so far. There are some pics in my profile as well as some reviews if you are interested. Might be a good device to wear as your piercing heals up and as you guage up/down as well because it is so light and if sized properly it won't put any stress on that piercing.

Surely that Looker 3 is a great device, but you might have some irritations with that Lock while you are in healing mode? I do not have one so it's is just an observation .. ymmv.

Either way, keep us posted, love hearing success stories.

 

Agreed on the "reward" after the piercing. Lol

Most PA devices can be worn without the hook installed so you may be able to get the device and use the hook later.