We got involved in chastity through the "advice" of a friend. We are in our early 30's and have been married for about 6 years. I had a strong libido and Missy somehow considered sex as something that was wrong to enjoy. Chastity has helped but love has gotten us through. We still have some problems but we keep trying. Unfortunately our story that I will post as a journal turns out to be very long and I hope that it is not boring. It looks at chastity almost as a therapy tool rather than a life style.
Welcome to CM. Your journal is the place for you're story and journey. Looking forward to your input.
I will be just calling it our story. I have been trying to get my wife to help write it or at least read it before I post it but she does not want to. She is okay with me doing this as long as I don't risk our privacy but she is not comfortable with talking about our problems. She does not see where we will get any useful advice or how our story will help any one else so she doesn't see any point to it. To address her privacy concern I will just refer to us as Missy and Hubby.
Hi, Hubby, My wife was exactly the same when we got married. And 12 years later, things haven't changed a lot. She is better than she used to be, but still exhibits feelings of guilt and shame over even modest things like kissing. I hope things improve between you and your wife in the bedroom department. I understand the pain that it causes in a relationship.
My Wife has access to view everything I write. She too is not interested in participating. Always maintain your privacy. I do feel you can get so good input though. We actually found mature metals reference as we did our internet research. That is why she directed me order sizing rings from MM. Also she picked the 2cages she would pick from for my custom cage. Good luck