I'm just now learning what my Wife's idea of chastity is. 3 orgasms in one session followed by 3 days of nothing much sexually except a few grabs of my balls and tweeking of my nipples. Then scolded for being too grabby and fawning over her. Stop touching so much. I am not to touch myself unless requested and now no touching of my Wife. I just want to give her pleasure. I'm trying to learn what pleases her and not to go too far. The inactivity is killer! By far the hardest thing about chastity. No release in sight.
I am quite lucky in that regard. She is open to all sorts of touching, as long as I'm not bugging her about me. I can go down or play with her almost as much as I like, it usually is my teasing because she doesn't really play with it too much anymore now that she feels no guilt about not wanting it.
Given time you will learn that your biggest pleasure is to submit to her control and wishes, way better than any release you might want, pleasing her will become your ultimate goal , stay with it the rewards are worth it
Sounds about right but I have sex once a week and no orgasms for at least a month minimum. My wife complains about me touching her all the time too. Says I am smothering her with love. You get used to it.
I can request pussy worship. Providing this is no more than once or twice a week she will likely accept! Otherwise patience and control are required. If I touch my cage in bed and she realizes she will tell me off or slap my hand. Today she is returning after a journey lasting a day and a half: I have completely cleaned the house, sinks, shower, laundered the bed stuff for our bed and the spare, bought lots of food etc, as well as doing my day job, all whilst locked up. I think that this is the sort of attention she will most appreciate.