Hello to all, My wife and I found this site when we had a weekend away and we had bought a few books about FLR and chastity. Up to now it has been a very welcoming and helpful site that seems to be mostly populated by honest, helpful and good folks. We thought it was about time we introduced ourselves. We are a married couple in our 40's and have started to explore MissJ's dominant side. It has been a slow and gradual start but that is the way we prefer it. We have talked and discussed this in length and broke ourselves in gently (as such). We began our journey in earnest only a short time ago and we can honestly say that up to now it's been very positive. I have my wife's permission to write this and in fact my wife is sitting here with me as I write ( I am running each part past her before I type further). I have a high pressure job and this way of life has taken some pressure off me by handing it over to my wife to make decisions. My wife has found this way of life to give her greater confidence and a more positive outlook on life. It has bought us closer together than we have been for years. The intimacy has been incredible. It has so far solved my self abuse problem (2-3 times a day) I now enjoy being teased and denied and I have to be honest that has made me feel better in myself and given me more focus and drive for what I am good at (work). We have in the past experimented in several kinks but not on a regular basis. We have found to our surprise this lifestyle is not all about the kinks but about a different mindset. I have tonight learnt about how to do the laundry which about to become one of my duties. Miss J is shortly to begin the verifying process with the admins and will be changing the password to this account so I will have no further access to it. We both wish everyone success in their journey. Miss J and sub j
Welcome to both of you. There are many husbands here who completely share your experience and are using chastity and FLR to overcome ego, masturbation, toxic masculinity and intimacy issues. We look forward to sharing with MissJ what has worked for our wives.