I happened across chastity by accident. I saw an image on Instagram and it made my heart skip a beat. That was about two years ago. Since then I have been doing research and following several fantasy accounts on Tumblr. I’m a recent widower and my wife fell ill shortly after my discovery. So I never had the chance to bring it up with her. I just bought my first cage. A cheap plastic Chinese cage. I didn’t order from DHGate, but you can find it there. It’s white and green. I think I got lucky with it. The fit feels nice. I was able to wear it overnight the first time I got it on. I’ve been wearing it now just over 24 hours with trips out of the home. No discomfort with wear. It’s has quite a few pinch points and is a bit tricky to get on though. I’m not looking for long term denial. I’m doing self lockups. More as a way to curb masterbation and incentivize weight loss. Setting realistic goals along the way. I’m looking forward to seeing what this site and community have to offer.
Welcome to the mansion... You'll find friendly peoples and kh to help you reach your goal... plus a lot of tips and tricks from other lockees... For the pinching, you can try some lube on the inside of the A ring... I personally use baby oil gel and re-apply about twice a day... morning after shower and b4 bed time... Your device is a knockoff of evotion wearables if I'm not mistaken... I considered this model also but opted for a HTv2 copy... How stealth his it? I'm still considering this since the HT is quite a pain to keep clean...
I don’t wear tight clothes so it’s not noticeable for me. Another thing I like about it is how open the end is. I don’t always fill the cage (hence turtle) and I don’t have problems relieving myself.
Thanks for your feedback, I'll probably give it a try... Have get the standard version or the small one? I'm also a grower and I think the small one should be a good fit. The open design appeals me for easier cleaning and more time between openings...
Welcome. There are several self-lockers here so you'll find lots of mutual interests and support. Keep us informed about how you get on. Perhaps do a journal to record your experiences. If not, just join in the threads and share our mutual enthusiasm. Have fun...
Sorry to read about the lost of your wife. If you have any questions just ask, there is a diverse group of people here, someone will have the answer.