Hello all, Long time lurker, first time poster. My wife and I have been into chastity since we were dating. I was 19 at the time, she was 21. In the years since then, we've tried multiple devices, including some custom options. I currently wear a BAWRPRO BA-05 in titanium with a security screw. It's been worn continuously since it arrived, just before November began. Before that, I was in a Mature Metal Watchful Mistress (also with a security screw), which has been our main device for around three years now. I've learned from and have been entertained by the ChastityMansion forums, and you posters, for a long time now, and am happy to be here to offer my contributions to the community. Hopefully, and with any luck, my posts end up helping in some small way (or at least prove to be interesting). I'd be happy to answer any questions if there are any, otherwise... Thanks again friendly people, and stay chaste!
Welcome! It's always exciting to have new young members who have been locked for most of their relationship like you. It feels so modern to see such an empowered wife and such an accepting young husband. I, for one, will be hoping to learn how your chastity shapes your marriage and helps develop your wife as a powerful young woman.
Hi, Very interesting that you started so young. By my reckoning you have been into chastity for around 11 years now. Would love to know how strict your wife is? Also I love the idea of meeting a girl even just 2 years older. I remember at 19 I was incredibly naive and I know that at that age range just 2 years makes a huge difference in how much more mature a female is than a male. I wish when I was 19 I had met someone slightly older and that the availability of good chastity devices then was as good as it is now.
Hi there, We actually met in high school! I was a junior and she was a senior. And that's right, we purchased our first device in 2012; a CB-3000. I told her someone asked how strict she was; she scoffed, rolled her eyes, and said, "He's just trying to get off!" In reality, I often tease her about how strict she is, but I feel I should preface that statement by saying our dynamic is completely consensual and I could be unlocked if I were to actually push the issue. That said, our chastity play began with domestic discipline and has evolved from there. She punishes me for real infractions, like not doing chores and such, and whether or not I'm locked is completely her decision.
Rather difficult when one is locked up! I would say that at least 99% of men in chastity do it consensually but a good KH will try very hard to dissuade you from asking her to unlock you just because you ask. For the record I have been subject to DD for many years. I need and enjoy the control of a strict woman.