Hi all. I’m Amanda (feminine name). I don’t currently have a key holder and my wife doesn’t know about my feelings. But I have written an extensive self contract listing out my expectations and I’m living under that. I can’t lock because my wife is none the wiser, so I’m simply living a chaste life on my own. I’m open to learning more about this fetish and lifestyle.
Welcome to our community. I hope you find it useful and enjoyable to reach whatever chastity goals you desire.
Everyone keeps saying “talk to your wife”. My wife has expressed hostility to kink before. I’m concerned it’ll ruin the relationship. Any tips for approaching her?