New here, not new to chastity though

Hi all, I'm Tarknassus, I'm joining here (finally!) after hearing about this site for years. I only recently decided to join because I found a lot of useful information coming up in my searches for my chastity requirements (I'm looking at some options for myself and my KH).

I started about 6-odd years ago, looking through kink stuff and this one caught my eye. I bought a cheap knockoff CB6000 and it was hot as heck! It was also extremely uncomfortable, even after a few hours - but I was hooked! I progressed through cheap Chinese metal, helping me figure out my size, went custom, messed it up, went custom again (Steelworxx Steelheart with some extras on it) and it's 90% there... Because I'm uncut and pierced with a PA, my options are really really limited. The PA loop in my Steelheart takes up too much room and have to wear it without . It's super comfortable for the uncut but it's such high maintenance too. My KH wife isn't super keen on it - she loves to see me strain against a cage - I've seen some options that are half-Steelheart, half-open cage.

Regarding my KH wife, she's been through some medical issues lately so hasn't really been in the place to do any KH'ing lately. I've been spending time doing some progressively longer self-locks to get back into the swing of the locked life. She's improving, so I'm looking forward to a dominated future. She's also progressively gotten into the whole KH aspect - controlling the key, releases, denial/tease etc. She was just slowly getting into the idea of me being caged with her 'property' (an idea I find super super hot)... We've basically got to start all our intimate activities from scratch now - but we're both wanting to not rush in. I know she'll be asking (demanding?) I be locked again hence I'm 'training myself'

Currently I'm exploring the concepts of desperation in chastity - the borderline of consent between me and my KH and what it truly desperate... It's certainly something I'd like to post about and discuss here at some point soon

Anyhow, I'm also known for rambling, so I'll leave it there for now - and Hi! Glad to be here!