Hello all - this forum has been an abundance of help to me as a total newb to chastity. I am a queer man and I'm having a huge growth spurt in the bedroom with my partner lately. He is trans and has his original plumbing still, and historically we have had fairly vanilla PIV sex together. We have been exploring more kink and dom/sub dynamics together lately and it's a huge source of excitement for both of us. My partner has always been a bit more on the sub side in our sexual dynamic and I've historically been the top / the person penetrating (I get the impression I'm in the minority here as a queer man...) and now my partner is exploring domming me around and he is already getting pretty good at it! He is good at keeping me on the edge... I am basically dripping at the idea of being locked in a cage and teased, not sure whether it will evolve into a long-term-lockup kind of thing, or whether we will use chastity in more short term ways, but I can say I'm so happy I'm giving myself permission to explore this. I eventually want to invest in a Mature Metal cage but I haven't even been locked up once yet, so I just ordered an off-the-shelf stainless cage for starters that is as close to my dimensions as possible after doing a bunch of research. I have a lot of questions and am finding so many good answers in the forums, but I will likely post a couple of questions that seem novel to my situation in the coming days. Thanks so much for anyone sharing information on here - again, I really appreciate this forum!