Married male, 59. I was curious about trying a chastity device for a while and finally bought one — the Fyjennicc HT-V4…I believe it’s kind of a Holy Trainer knockoff - about a year ago. We’ve slowly begun to incorporate caging into our play…as an occasional thing. It’s been fulfilling. My performing oral on her has always been a central part of our sexual bond, at least as much as fucking, and I’ve been using toys and dildos in conjunction with orally pleasuring her in recent years too. The cage fits into that type of teasing play very well. I should say the element of denial - when it comes to penetrative sex - was not an out of step dynamic for us even before all this. Interested in exploring further, getting other devices, and learning about other folks’ experiences.