Hi .. I've been here a while, but I don't think I ever introduced myself. I'm an older, sub-minded guy who has had 20+ years of D/s-BDSM experience, including those as a live-in. But, one thing missing from those experiences was the practice of chastity. I was never caged, nor (other than very short term) was I ever even restricted from self-pleasuring. I feel, though, that I would like to include that missing part of my experience and have put it on my "bucket list". While local and in-person seems the ideal, I am considering something long-distance and on-line.
Welcome to Chastity Mansion @subsam4u Chastity (and BDSM) has been on my bucket list for many years and only recently have the opportunities presented themselves to allow me to delve more deeply. Taking the first steps are scary and exhilarating in equal measure but I think we start to lose our inhibitions as we get older, if only because we realise that the time available to enjoy these new experiences is rather less than when we were half the age we are now! The path is not level - there are plenty of bumps on the way but these should be seen as part of the learning experience. I wish you all the best on your journey. As I was reminded just the other day, it is better to travel hopefully than to arrive.