Need help cumming to quick

But mine doesn't get diamond cutting hard. That's why I'm caged. Any tip to get it diamond cutting hard ?

 

Nope…no tips! It just happens. It’s your brain , not mine.

Anyways I am only allowed to get hard during cleaning and inspection and then I am back into lock up. But, she loves to tease me and just talk to me and bam!

The new cage is in and with the dental cleaner…getting hard May well be a distant memory soon enough.

 

I wish you permanent lock for ever.

 

If you have any sort of depression, you might wanna look into getting a Sertraline (Zoloft) prescription. I know for a fact that thing will make you last for hours. That is the biggest side-effect of the medication.

 

Yes learn to hold back ... do it properly and you will be able to have dry orgasms.. with no ejaculation there is no need to stop and it is an incredible feeling if you master it

and possibly give your partner a real kick too that she can make you do that

 

Years ago during sex with wife, i always practise variable rhythm.. sometimes fast sometimes slow depending on her mood and pace..sometimes soft sometimes hard while keep observing when she needs ejaculation. That was the reason condom sucks. Proper sex techniques are all for goddesses to enjoy while hardcore pounding sex is for whores. I do notice over years, ejaculation amount is getting lesser too, “dry orgasm” is more often.. not unlike early teen years when initial masturbation ends with orgasm but no ejaculation. Cum only comes a year later.
Does dry orgasm equate to actual orgasm and cheating on chastity..?

 

Puh. The recommendations here are crazy.
Setralin, other medicaments which might have severe side effect numbing cream.

Tststs. Not good.

First of all if you are such a fast shooter and not able to satisfy your gf with your penis you should maybe stop using it.
That is what cockcages are made for.
It is hard to accept, but what is your goal? You want to penetrate her and let her have an penis orgasm? Or let her have good feelings.

I was so well trained in stamina before being locked up due to exzessive masturbation severel times a day. I could hold it back a long time and REALLY shoot a large amount ofsemen out of my cock. Mastrbating for an hour was no problem.

But i never was a good fucker. She didnt have real interests of having sex with me.
I thought it was her fault, but it was mostly mine.
Small cock and in my brain a masturbator, so the movement had to be like that. In and out.

So we had to arrange. I offered her an FLR and so we started from having no sex, to several times a day in the beginning. Now several times a week. But thats okay also i think.

She now was able to do with me what she wanted, which opened her mind.
And she trained me - together with a friend she found on the internet who gave her online tips to her fuckmachine..
She trained my stamina, my erection hardness, my self control and my mindset. My goal was no to cum but to hold it back. So it was able for me to hold my erection for three sets in a row because it would get too dangerous to cum. Which means abotu 1 to 1 /2 hours.

It was not only MY duty to fulfill her wishes. It is also hers to make me fulfill them. She is responsible for what I do when she has wishes. Because the relationship is female led.

So, she also made me to a good licking fucktoy and for her penis sextoy which really felt good. My big chance to give her the orgams she never had.

Train your mindset!
Be proud not to cum in her.
Unfocus from ejaculation.
No masturbation movement.
Think YES! I wont cum because of her satisfaction. Use techniques of cumcontr
Try the deepstimulation. Not in and out a we usually do. But push it in and keep pushing in depth. So she has stimulation of her clit and the A Point maybe gpoint as well.
And you have limited sensation.
If you feel short before cumming get your little friend out and lick her or stimulate her by hand. If it is better go back inside.
Do the same fuck her hard. When you recognize you might cum, get your unnecessary weener out or bring it deep inside again and stay there until you have reduced your sensation.

This will train your stamina and mindset.

Next opportiunity is: offer her another man who has a bigger and longer lasting cock.

My lady doesnt want one, also because the offers she gets are really horrible. These bukks with strang thoughts of how to speak to a woman, because they watch to much porn... Crazy.

Well I have to say, that we slowly slide into a never inside relationship.
My licking abilities are too good, she doesnt want my cock anymore. Sometime she rides a big dildo which i have to hold with my teeth or is strapped on on me.
But usually she just lets me lick her or she uses the vibrator.
She sissyficates me somehow so my penis git her secondary clit, which she rubs really hars to get me drained after chastity of several weeks. And she wants to give me a sissygasm. Thats her goal.

So I have say good bye to PiV Sex and start think otherwise as it seems. She wants it like that and is going to buy ne pink panties.

Maybe this and permanent chastity might be a possibility to solve her and your problems too.

 

You have rock hard erection, stamina to last 3 consecutive sex marathons, or maybe a concurrent marathon with another female trainer… yet she doesnt want your cock, lock it up and prefers to use your tongue..? My george, come over here and you can do wonders to my wife! ...erm.. but dont come over sissificated, maybe?
Jokes aside.. wonderful things your wife has in plan for you.. and marvelous things chastity can do to a man.. and woman. Male chastity should be a default by birth.

 

Sir you are a PHD doctorate in being locked up

 

I wear two condoms over the numbing cream

 

Not yet. More bachelor. But we tried more than we read or wrote.

Ready to take the challenge.

 

Today I failed miserably. It was only 5 days since I had orgasmed, and today I was supposed to have piv without orgasm. To achieve that I used lidocaine spray, and wore 2 thick condoms before piv. And I still couldn't make it and came. I was so disappointed in myself. My mistress/wife forgave me but I wasn't happy at all. Then I came twice more without condom because I had lost the incentive to not cum as I had already ruined it. My KH plan was to make me cum after 100 days but I failed only after 5 days. What's wrong with me ... Any suggestions what to do next

 

I did that today 2 condoms and numbing spray. Still came early..

 

Are you leaving the cream for 15 mins?

 

I agree!

 

It's a spray. I think I only waited for 8 minutes and then washed it

 

Sir how can we make our wives to take pleasure in our suffering ? I want my wife to laugh and be happy about my frustration while in the cage.

 

You have it Exactly correct. You just need to cum (by whatever method) and then after a quick recovery you’ll do fine. Using numbing cream or any other stalling technique, will likely take your non-existent problem and turn it into sexual dis-function. Which by the way is exactly the goal of some chastity enthusiasts, so choose your path carefully.