Hello everyone, just wanted to introduce myself to you all. Me and my wife are very new to all this and we're loving every minute of it. She's relishing in the power over meand freedom to chat and do whatever she wants to who ever she wants. I'm loving constantly being on the edge, constantly thinking about her and how i can please her next. It's a very exciting time in our lives. Like i said though we're very new to this so any help or advice would be very much appreciated. SubP81
Welcome to the world of being and wanting to be Locked. My best advice is to spend some time exploring the many posts here. Any Questions you have have already been answered and discussed in detail. The fun part is reading all about Chastity and realizing your not alone. Take Care and stay Locked
Welcome. I think you'll like it here. Have you found a well fitting cage yet? How did you and your wife decide on chastity? Your idea or hers? Sharing details of your journey will bring you closer to the community. Enjoy
Once you get the taste of being locked up, the wanting to be locked up feeling will never go away! The longer you're locked up the more you'll want to serve your wife. I hope you have found a well fitting cage for long term lock ups. Good luck. There are many here with great advice. just ask.
How we decided on chastity...... My confession actually came out about a year back we were lay in bed playing and teasing each other when my wife said about sleeping with another man, i had for some time been watching chastity and Cuckold porn so the idea of it excited me. She felt me instantly go hard so she carried on playing that night. The day after she was actually that fond of the idea. A year and a bit passed and we was in Amsterdam i was trying to convince her to get a prostitute and we could have some fun, she wouldn't do it but said she was definitely up for joining some sites and seeing if we could find a couple or a female to have some fun with. That soon escalated to be willing to do mmff, ffm or mmf. She then said that she feels more comfortable with the idea of her sleeping with another man if thats what i still wanted, i instantly went hard again. After a few lengthy conversations we agreed that when she does this the ball is in her court and she has the final say. So she's been talking with a few guys and last week actually arranged to meet up with him in a couple of weeks (next week now). She then told me that I wasn't allowed to cum for the 2 weeks leading up to it, i then came up with the idea of getting a device just for times when I'm on my own and might be tempted to play. Regarding the device i just got a £40 one to start off with as I'm not wearing it all the time it does the job great so far.
Welcome to the world of the caged! Over time, you will probably find wearing the cage to be better than not wearing it. (When I'm free, I am always wanting to be locked up again, for some strange reason). Enjoy the journey and especially, enjoy your submission!
You're in for a wild ride SubP. Take it slow, one step at a time. Get comfortable in your cage and your submission before bringing another person into your relationship. Stay involved here, lots of experienced people to help you through the changes.