I am just new to the forum. I started to play around with my GF about the idea of chastity and giving her the control over my cock and so far we enjoyed the journey. After I tried two different devices (CB-6000 and another steel based one), which wouldn't fit I decided to go slow for the beginning and give her control over my orgasms or touching myself just for a few days by making the promise and sticking to it by plain old willpower - with the goal of extending the periods of time gradually, also giving her the chance to get to know the fun of exercising control over my sexuality I'll reconsider getting a device if it turns out too hard. I already got some nice inspiration from this forum: https://chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/device-free-chastity.19376/ I found that it helps if I commit myself for a specific period of time, which than can be extended. I also see no issue in taking breaks and then making another commitment. What's important for me is that if I make a commitment, I stick to it. Should I fail to do it, I must confess it to her in a serious and humble way and ask her how we'll handle the situation. To support myself, I'm using a few things that might help: - I'll use a lace that she can tie around my cock; I love the act of "getting locked up" by her and I find it quite sexy; she'll tie it around my cock when I'm not horny, so if I get horny, the lace reminds me of my commitment. - I use a "Time since..." app in my phone that displays the time since I made the commitment, somehow this makes it more visible and measurable and I don't want to break the chain of X days. - And also, I thought it might help to write this journal here to be able to track my experiences over a longer period of time. The first period of denial was a few weeks ago when I was travelling, I committed myself not to cum until we met again, but was allowed to masturbate. This was really a nice experience and often the horniness building up would lead to sexy chat conversations. Right now I committed myself not to touch myself and not to watch porn without asking her first until Sunday, which I feel is quite hard because I'm a bit addicted to femdom porn and it'll take a lot of willpower.