TL;DR: What is the most difficult day after you orgasm? Still pretty new to this. I the six weeks I've been 24/7, my wife has given me 3 orgasms. I haven't had the drop I hear a lot of people talk about. Guessing that is related to the relatively short time between orgasms. One thing I have noticed is that 3 days after I get extremely anxious and frustrated. I also start having small spontaneous releases. Day 4 has been a little better, and by day 5 I feel excited and aroused instead of anxious and frustrated. So, my question is, what is the most difficult day after you orgasm? Also. Just realized two things: 1) 6 weeks since I last masturbated. I used to do that three times a day. 2) Meaning that I have had as many orgasms in 6 weeks as I used to have in a day
Mine are too infrequent but I have noticed that when they do happen the dip from it is barely noticeable and the horny feelings remain, maybe a little subdued but not enough to be a problem. In the past I suffered from post orgasm depressive symptoms and sometimes immediately after orgasm I would get a severe migraine headache that would last for perhaps 4 or 5 hours but I haven't had one of them in years.
I have not had a full erect orgasm since the 5th of January this year, I use to cum more frequently but my key holder hated me going low. She said it's better this way as she always has my full attention now, she is undecided if I will orgasm again as she is much happier with me orgasm free. I certainly didn't think things would end up here when we started but lady v always knows best. I have absolutely no regrets and adore her
Only just back into chastity after a 6 month break, but days 7-14 or so have been hardest this time around. Currently at 24 days now and the highs/lows seem to be shallower, although ball ache seems a constant for now
For me, the longer the lockup, the harder the crash. The morning and day after is the most difficult period. Now I know what to expect, I manage it so she doesn’t have to.
If I only have one orgasm and lock back up immediately I tend to get right back into the zone without too much difference. If I have 2-3 O's within a release period I can become somewhat grumpy and self-centered for a day or two until things balance out again.
i think that if you are lockup for a long time its worser cos you really sad that you have been let have one and that you wish you had been kept locked up. i use to get ever so depress when i was just milked and im glad now that i dont have to be milk.
I have the opposite experience: The longer I go without an O, the less of a crash it seems. A few times I haven't had any real crash at all.
The day after an orgasm I’m usually just kind of blah about being back in the cage. I only seem to crash when my Wife will grant me multiple orgasms over a few days. She occasionally wants me free for a week and we’ll have lots of sex and she allows me to cum each time. Then it’s extremely tough to get back into chastity and have the proper submissive attitude and obedient to her. These breaks are becoming more rare as she sees I get a little depressed and lazy until I’ve been locked again for 4-5 days after. We’ve just this month decided my orgasms will only be allowed from a handjob, and that definitely has had a huge impact of keeping me from having any real drop. It’s definitely not the same as getting to penetrate and have an orgasm.