Most days you've ever been without orgasm?

About 185 days. It was just over 6 months. We didn't start with a planned kength, it ju st came about by mutual contentment and willingness to keep going.

 

437 days.

 

Just 88 days. My keyholder decided to put an end to the daily teasing.

I had gotten to the point where she couldn’t touch my cock, and I wasn’t nearly as much fun. So she reset my body with a full orgasm. I didn’t want one at that point, but she forced the issue (so to speak).

I’ve only gone 31 days without a drop of cum spilled.

She promises that someday we will get to a full year.

 

Have not kept track of the days, mainly because we didn't realize it was going to be a long term when we started. I've been locked up continuously for over a year, and I don't honestly remember my last orgasm. It might have been five or six weeks before the lockup, or it might have been the week before.

 

Being very new to MC and being caged...I have done Loctober last year...So maybe 35 days...I know...Nothing to brag about...

 

I think you will find that the amount of time depends on your KH. In my case I am lucky. My wife still likes to take her toy out to play about every 7 to 10 days if I have been good . Orgasm denial to me is not being able to touch or any masterbation. Like I said LUCKY

 

115. Just setting out to break that now.

 

About 250 and counting.

 

Currently 463 and counting. I won't be calling Guinness book. Not looking to win the Gold. Chastity is a necessity, an enjoyable one, but a necessity nonetheless.

 

Don't let the guys with the big numbers throw you off. It's not a contest; it's a way for you and your partner to have some intimate fun. Long term caging, and especially long term orgasm denial is not for everyone.

To put this in perspective, imagine if your wife came to you, saying that she wanted to be locked up in a stainless steel belt and not fucked for a month or two. And then imagine after that month was up, she acted upset that you had sex and gave her an orgasm.

I know it's not a direct analogy, but keep that in mind when you start thinking you want to be denied for weeks or months.

 

Have now been without for 2532 days and locked 7982 days

 

So, you have not had an orgasm in almost 7 years, and you've been locked up for almost 22?

 

42 days. Last release was an accidental O. Goal is to go 4 months with a release in August.

 

think about 15 years - then puberty hit me!

 

i had kindly been granted 3 climax in 3 years, but since the end of January 2019, the intention of My Queen is that it was the last full orgasm for eternity. She even made it tattooed on my skin.

 

About six weeks for me. Anytime I get to about the one month mark it becomes so easy for me to orgasm that the streak almost always ends by "accident". That can happen in a variety of ways, but usually the actual ejaculation was not planned.

 

Tom,
You write a lot on your blog and in forums, and have a public creative outlet with captions as well.

Do you ever write for yourself in a journal? You may enjoy having a private one, for you.

I started one in late 2013 for myself - yes, first as a way to keep track of events in a mundane way - it became a way for me to capture the emotions and conversations of the moment.

I have gone back to reread and it helps me re-live fun and tremendous moments with my own wife.

Lately I try to capture her words. I’m finding I’m a forgetful man, and have discovers how consistent she has been.

Good luck in counting the months ahead.

 

110 days, my latest and longest time. Also, I was free from CB only no more than couple of hours during the whole time under supervision. Since last orgasm I have now been locked for bit over 3 weeks and counting.

 

Locktober was the longest but I have a funny feeling that this will become the norm at least!

 

Most of those captions are not mine, of course, they're from various Tumblrs, some of which have been shuttered or deactivated. But I do write a few of my own, when the mood strikes.

And of course, I've been blogging since the early 2000s, and I've been writing in other forums on sexuality and relationships since the early 1990s.

I don't keep a personal journal. I've thought about it, but generally, if I'm going to write anything it's typically on a forum or a blog comment. I do have draft posts that I've never published that are a little more personal, but I've never gone back to clean them up. Once in a while I read them, but sometimes, for me, it's enough to read some old blog post simply because it reminds me of what was going on in my life at the time.

 

I've done just over a year (between 2012-2013 I think), but you quickly reach a point where it's more about keeping the 'streak' going than whatever you may think you're getting from it. Then it becomes just an endurance test.

 

2 or 3 weeks when caged, but there was one time that was a little over 40 days and Mistress had me edge myself at least once a day sometimes 2 or 3 times a day and no release was allowed.

 

I think that a lot of people simply don't acknowledge this aspect. When Mrs Edge and I first started playing with it, we jumped immediately into long term denial, and went almost nine straight months. We took a break for various reasons, but when we went back to it, one of the questions that came up was "Well, we went for nine months, so what's next? A year? Two?"

There are a few chastity captions making the rounds lately, with captions to the effect of "Every period of chastity has to be longer than the previous one." For a lot of us, it becomes a contest.

I've said elsewhere that if you *really* want to freak out a hard core chastity fan, lock him up on January 1, and then unlock him on December 29th and force him to have an orgasm. He will be beside himself that you didn't push it a couple more days to the 1 year mark.