Mistress Reward Proposal

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    Yesterday my Mistress proposed two options to me for an upcoming reward. I'm not sure which way to go as they both sound amazing. I've been locked up 24/7 without release for a few months now, so I'm having a hard time deciding which way to go and need some input lol

    Option 1 : She will unlock me for 24 hours to do whatever I want - sex, masturbating, etc. Once the 24 hours is done, she will tie me up and put the lock back on, return the keys to the bank.

    Option 2 : She will wear her strap on and peg me (cage stays on).

    She knows how bad I've been wanting her to do that, which is what is making it difficult to decide on. Having 24 hours to have orgasms and touch myself is soooooo tempting however.

    I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO
     
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    #2 absolutely
     
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    As you word it, it sounds like options 2 could be an option for one. You could unlock for 23 hours then have her do 2 for the last hour
     
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    I would do 1 and have her peg you before the cage comes off.
     
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    If you have wanted option 2 and have never tried it then I would ask for that. You have had sex and orgasm before so try something new?
     
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    2 definitely if you go with number 1 it will take a while to get your mind back into service mode.
     
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    I’d go with option 2. It’s something you wanted to try and it’s quite possible you’ll both discover it’s another form of pleasure that can be added to your love making while you remain caged. I understand the desire to go with option 1 but, the thought of exploring new avenues of play would make option 2 too tempting to pass up. You might want to spend some time practicing with a butt plug ;)
     
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    You've never done 2 before? Because if not, devil's advocate here, it takes a few tries to get that right, and be ready to not just do it, but do it well. If you go that way, and again I'm not totally sure you never have, so pardon me, google some info on the cleanliness, and hygiene part of that equation. Surprises ruin it completely, if you catch my drift.

    As much as I am into it, I wasn't always that good at it. At first I just sort of laid there and took it, which sucks because inside of me resides the desire to fuck like Natalie Mars or Jade Madison.

    I'm just pointing this out so that you don't come out of it disappointed.

    Personally, I likely would take #2, and wouldn't try to cross over and get some of each as was suggested earlier. Your Domme has laid a very clear idea of two specific choices, and it muddys the water to add in suggestions or alter the vision from your Dominant.
     
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    I agree whole heartily with Monica above on the hygiene and looking up vids on how to start it etc. But I like both obviously but number 2 seems it could be cool if you wanted to try and she down aswell to try. But whatever you pick hopefully you'll enjoy that choice.!!
     
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    If she has gifted you 2 options why try for both. It's one or the other, it could be a test lol. A tough choice. You can't demand your cake and eat it too. Don't know what I'd do. If it's your first time and you want this go for option 2 and hope you get relief from it. Take the advice of the more practiced.
     
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    Never done it but I would say No 2. Simply for the fun and experience. (ill try most things a few times before judging)

    You may never get another chance so do the homework and be prepared as suggested by others.
    Good luck.
     
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    Option 2 is one of my pending fantasies so this is the option I choose if I should have to pick one.
     
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    You know what would be really cruel in a fun way? If she gave you this choice and took whatever option you didn't take and made that happen instead because she's the key holder and she decides your pleasure. Also, consider if you take option 1, then she decides to keep you locked up for a longer time than if you take option 2. Like 1 day per hour, out 24 hours, in for at Least 24 days. If you've never gone more than a few days or two weeks that could be a fun little adventure. I'd take the 1st option as I've not been pegged before and it takes a lot of work and training to get the anus ready for something like that without damage.
     
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    Got to be number 2, you won’t regret it!
     
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    If you can't decide, asking others won't help much. Perhaps you should ask her to delay the choices as neither is the right choice.
     
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    How about option 3... Let her peg you each and every time you want to masterbate/release. I can speak from experience, an orgasm while being pegged is an unbelievable experience. It is quickly becoming the only way I want to cum.
     
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    Exactly. Trying to weasel a way to get both might get you neither. :)
     
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    There is not much a Domme hates more than alterations to Her plan. It makes Her feel like She isn't in control the way She should be. They lose confidence in these moments, and in turn, are more shut in to experimenting or trying to do more.

    It's a good message for all subs trying to give over in the power exchange: (one I too work at)

    Submit, don't try to run it. She will take care of you. Trust in the process, and don't try to muscle things. Doing anything besides exactly what She tells you is counter productive to the entirety of the D and s relationship.
     
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    You are correct ma'am, while I understand all FLRs are an agreement of the parties, and not all are the same, I made that suggestion because it is the only way I am allowed a release, I must be penetrated to have one, and it is an amazing feeling.
     
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    Flip a coin and stick with how it comes out!!
     
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    #2. If you manage to do it in a way she also begins to want more you will benefit as well.
     
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    You know what to do... Take the pegging and sacrifice your orgasm to your beloved Mistress! It's the only sensible choice.
     
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    Exactly, trust the process. You're only cheating yourself in the end.

    You get out of it what you put into it. It works if you work it! :+1:




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    If you haven't tried much anal play before option 1 is probably the best, or at least self prepare for option 2 as going in cold Turkey generally won't be a fantastic experience.
     
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