'Maintenance' punishments

This is exactly the case with us .. that's why my wife usually pulls me apart, although recently she started using accessories (rope with a ball) and then I stand with my back in front of the gymnastic ladder (my wife ties me to it so that I reflex to hide or connect my legs), which allows expose the testicles and has an additional value for the wife .. I can't see when she hits, my wife likes it because she knows that then I am more afraid and I cannot be prepared - I beat at irregular intervals with varying strength, which is difficult to withstand .. and in total with the cage if it does not affect the penis itself, because I have a fairly tight fit, I have a steel tube permanently attached to the cage in the room and this effectively immobilizes the penis, also there are no shocks that could cause injury.

 

My wife has been getting rid of stress by using a paddle or belt or wooden dowel rod on me for the last 6 years

 

lucky you

 

I'm headed home in a few hours. I was going to get six days home, but it got reduced to five, thanks to a 27 hour work day, squeezed into my last day on the road. Take a day off at each end for travel, and it's down to three and a half. But it's home. Briefly.

Last night, my wife agreed that although belated, it's time for "birthday spankings," at the rate of seven per year. That will be several hundred, not to be specific, and perhaps some as punishment for being late.

She asked if I wanted them all at once. I told her I thought perhaps spread out might be better, so she agreed that they needed to be completed in a day, with her to decide how many, and when, at any given time. I have work to do on the car and other things, in between. We also agreed that all are to be hard, no taps, no token spankings.

For the time I'm home, my wife also agreed that anything said out of turn, or anything said that she doesn't like, to include any profanity, spoken or texted, will result in a mouth soaping. I tend to be expressive in my comments, and suspect that a couple of bars of Ivory are in my near future, damn it.

Not looking forward to the late birthday treatment. It's going to hurt. A lot.

 

That's a subject that interests me too. If You ever write that book, let me know

 

While I don't really have maintenance punishments, I do get punished regularly.

My wife is strict with to do lists and it is difficult to do things to the standards she sets, thus punishment. It is by design I'm sure.

But even if I haven't earned a punishment, she will still do some form of torment to me when she ties me up to play. She tells me she likes to hear me yelp in my gag.

I most certainly know who my Mistress is.

 

Most spankings by my Alpha are of the maintenance variety. She believes that this is the best way to show me who is in charge. Alpha makes me answer questions in between wacks. Like, "Do you see why I make the rules, beta?"

 

Maintenance spankings are a regular occurrence in our home. They initially began because my wife decided it was something she would like to try out. After our weekly review sessions, where we discuss my progress as a submissive husband, she tells me to prepare for maintenance. I am to get naked, pull out her various spanking tools, set up a pillow on the bed to elevate my ass, then kneel and wait for her. She enters our bedroom, I make a pledge to serve her, lay on the bed, then she proceeds to lay on 15 to 25 walks with 4 to 5 implements (straps, tawses, paddles).

In the beginning her strikes were fairly light all the way through maintenance. She would tell me that she wanted to make a clear distinction between maintenance and punishment. We have continued this for the last three years or so, this last year her strikes have become increasingly harder and harder. I now usually feel her maintenance for several hours afterwards.

This week she skipped maintenance and implemented a punishment spanking for an infraction she felt I deserved to feel how much she despised my actions and voice. She reserves her bath brush for punishment spankings. It hurts. I felt her punishment swats for three days, and there was only 15 of them.

Maintenance has clearly been a reinforcement of control and authority for her, especially initially. Maintenance has been a great confidence builder for her. I am grateful she initiated it. Now that she is putting in longer and harder maintenance swats, I too get a feel for what might be if I displease her. So I think now we both benefit greatly.

 

I am a big believer in maintenance discipline. My sub-hubby gets a spanking at least once a week, usually with a leather belt. This is to keep him constantly reminded of his sub position in our marriage.

Actual punishment is entirely different, I administer this only when he has misbehaved or broken one of my rules, and it is far more severe than his regular maintenance discipline, usually by using a cane.

Whether for maintenance spankings or for punishment, hubby must always count every blow, thank me after each one, and ask me for another.