Locktober 2023

Well folks it’s the 10th today, so a third of the time for many n Locktober. For me it’s not so straight forward. My wife has hinted at letting me out either end of October, her birthday (Nov 5) , Christmas Day , or New Year’s Day. A month is the longest so far, so the thought of going two more is both very daunting and also exciting.

 

Really well done to all that have come this far in Locktober. Keep it going boys!

 

Day 10. Still feeling comfortable. Was leaking a lot a couple of days ago.

10 days is the longest I have gone. I've learned a valuable lesson. I found out the ring I wore on my usual short sessions is too small and was getting uncomfortable. I moved to a bigger ring and it's way more comfortable. Every day is a school day.

 

Day 10 holding on for the ride. This is also the longest I've worn mine also. Let's keep going

 

Day 10 is finally here. I don't know how other men are feeling but for me, the strong craving for a climax the first couple of days has given way to a feeling more like a desire for a piece of candy that I cannot have. The hormones are still there so the desire is right at the surface. I was a two-three time a day person before going cold turkey 10/1/23.

Yesterday I was hugging my wife (KH) and blurted out "I want to have sex with you". She looked up at me, smiled, gave a little chuckle and went about her way. She knows what I want/need but I think she is enjoying me doing things out of turn (like dishes, laundry, vacuuming, cat litter, etc.). Maybe I have phased into a submissive stage without realizing it. This morning she let me have a couple minutes massaging her breasts. I don't know if that really helped some or hurt some. Anyway, I liked it!

 

Another month caged!

 

Sure.
"Another month" might be not much for some, but a lot for others.
Would be interested in some analysis, how this is distributed here.
But I assume, anybody who failed and quitted in June won't answer.

 

Day 10 started to have the usual chaffing under the ring and on the top right side. I got some Nexcare max hold waterproof band-aids and put them on the spots. Seems really good currently. I will undoubtedly have to reapply but at least I can keep going. Waves of horniess keep hitting me at the oddest times, but no leakage yet.

 

Nice job everyone. I have been denied an orgasm much longer, but this is the longest I have gone being caged the entire time with no breaks. Shooting for the whole month.

 

It’s a tricky one to answer. The longer I go without pussy the more frustrated and desperate I feel, but at the same time, living with that level of horniness and wanting to eat my wife out the whole tone is fantastic. I’ve got to say that I actually love being denied and secretly want to be pussy free.

 

I know where you are coming from. I adore worshiping my wife’s body and paying much attention to her pussy with oral and her favourite vibrator (actually her favourite cock), whilst being locked and denied. Talk about being shown the cake but not allowed any! It’s the most frustrating yet sexually arousing experience ever.

 

Starting late here

 

Better late than never….

 

Day 11. Morning has always been the horniest time for me. My wife (KH) knows that. This morning she tried something new. Getting up a few minutes earlier than normal, she made a little show of taking off her underwear. She told me to assume the missionary position and hump her for as long as I wanted... still caged of course. She said that when I quit though, we're done for the day. Absolutely nothing else for the rest of the day. Horny me ... I moved into position gladly. Looking at her in that position has always done something for me. Humping her while caged was quite unsatisfying for me. She smiled as she watched me get more frustrated by the moment. I watched her smile and watched her breasts bounce. I sure do like that look. I gave up far short of satisfaction for me. That was her plan. After I dismounted, she got up and said "Nothing more today" then proceeded to leave to get ready to go to work. I'm stuck sitting at the computer trying to work and keeping porn windows open. Maybe I should have known better watching breasts bounce is worth a lot!!

 

Please don't do this! The relief only lasted a couple of hours then the pain set in again. I had to remove the ring and the band-aids. I had shaved close with a trimmer but not all the way. The pain was quite breathtaking. Now I'm cageless until the sores heal. I think they were pressure sores and not chafing.

 

Today is the 3 week mark for me - a new record!

Besides for cleaning, I did have to unlock twice just to give my skin a break - I'm not used to lockups much longer than a week. But of course no cumming, so I feel like the spirit of Locktober is maintained.

So far, not as hard as I anticipated. Though, part of that is the fact that the fiance got very sick, so intimacy was not on the menu anyway. With her on the mend, I'm hoping for some more fun! She already specifically told me I have a pegging coming my way and I can't wait I'm crossing my fingers that after so long without an orgasm I might be able to reach an anal climax.

 

Like most i am 12 days in … longest prior without full orgasm was 14 days.

We took a leaf out of @MsPamelas book
And are using ruined orgasms when Lady C wishes … of course I am expected to recycle all semen to show my continued submission.

The feeling of being empty but still completely ‘hot’ is amazing. Wondering what the next 3 weeks will bring …

Lady C is liking the extra deep submission… I’m already 24/7 caged even before locktober2023… wondering if less frequent full orgasms is going to be a permanent feature ?

hope everyone is doing ok

 

My Wife wasn’t feeling great at the end of Sept leading into the first few days of Locktober, and once she felt better she wanted piv as it had been a few weeks, so I got to have a couple of erections this month but no orgasms. And today I had a doctor appointment she made me unlock for, now it should be total lockdown again except a deep clean and shave every week.
She gave me a two week warmup of total lockdown before October and has mentioned I should prepare for NOvember as well. It’s not really a huge change from every other month any more, these last couple years have been eye opening as my Wife is fully comfortable dominating me and no guilt denying me. I got what I wished for, and so far I wouldn’t change much of anything.

 

"So far, not as hard as I anticipated. Though, part of that is the fact that the fiance got very sick, so intimacy was not on the menu anyway. With her on the mend, I'm hoping for some more fun! She already specifically told me I have a pegging coming my way and I can't wait I'm crossing my fingers that after so long without an orgasm I might be able to reach an anal climax."

So how do you bring up 'pegging' the first time to your wife? After breaking that barrier... so to speak... I would think the topic easier but what about the first time?

 

I don't know if I'm the best person to ask this. Only because it was never really a source of anxiety or shame for me to bring it up. My partner and I are in our early thirties, so I must have mentioned it originally in our mid twenties. We're both open minded in terms of sex and kink, so I simply told her I was into it and she said she would love to try it.

It may not be that easy for everyone, but I think life is too short not to feel fully fulfilled in your sex life- especially with a loving partner. I also enjoy crossdressing, and I was terrified to bring that up. But of course, once I did she 100% supported me and encourages me to explore what makes me happy.

Try to frame it as this exciting, new way to feel pleasure and connect with your partner. You'll set the two of you up for failure if you approach her with the mindset that this is some heinous, dirty, perverted thing. Have fun, keep it light, and trust your partner to love you and want to make you feel good.

 

Unsurprisingly, jumping in last minute with a device that hadn't been modified since the last time it proved unsuitable for a 31 day lockup didn't work out. I could feel enough discomfort at the plumbing O ring the next day to be worth checking out, and despite feeling better than the metal ring, it was causing damage much faster. I've worth the O ring without a device for a week with no issue, but right behind the corona. I think trying to roll the more robust skin behind my circucision scar resulted in it being pushed over a thicker section of ecectile tissue. The end result was a dark red contusion like a whip weal, which is still vivid, and starting to crust here and there as the damaged skin is being replaced.

Lessons learned though. The scrotum ring fit with a 50mm ring and an additional bar around the base of the penis tube to reduce the testical escape route seems to be a winner, and I think some tweaking of the retention ring has some merit.

 

It's only day 12???? Seriously???? It feels like day 21, but..... I guess that's because it is, for me. This month is dragging on. These month long lockups don't get any easier for me. My cage is getting more and more comfortable the longer I go and I'm getting fewer hygiene releases. I went 17 days without one before my last one and I probably should have stayed in longer; there was no real perceived need.

 

Day 12 and loving it. My Goddess said she had a treat for me today but hasn't said what.

 

Did 30+ days in June 2022.
Was locked on and off the past year.
And locked for some of this September.
Locked for Locktober. And no orgasms anticipated. I’m planning a motel date night the end of the month… but as it is before Nov 1. It will all be about her. She is orgasming on average every three days…from my tongue and skillful wand technique. Good for her!