Locked Journey

It came and we got to try it out last night. Holy cow!

A quick recap of our discoveries.

1. it doesn’t work so well caged. There’s just not enough room with the ring and the humbler itself.
2. We started with me on all 4s on the bed. The bed was too soft and I wasn’t really on even surface. It worked much better on the floor on all 4.
3. There is no possible way to stand up or even kneel once it is on. We were joking around about it, definitely a fun experience.
4. She inserted a dildo which made it that much tighter. I think it was a combination of being filled and erect. The stronger my erection, the more it pulled on my balls.
5. The whole play session was only about 20 minutes. The last 2-3 minutes with it on, she stood in front of me and told me to lick her. She was higher than I could comfortably reach as the more I reached, the stronger it pulled.

It was a fun quick evening. We were both tired from a long day so she just put the cage back on and we went to bed. I have my waxing appointment today. I was informed that she already has a key to take me out and get everything nice and smooth again.

 

These are the same 2 friends in this journal. Both of us males are locked. We are very open with each other.

 

2 days in a row, 2 erections. I can’t remember the last time that has happened. We played around with our new toy some more.there is definitely some pain element to the humbler, even without the spanking. When we both got home from work, she said she wanted to try putting me in it again before we ate dinner. It was about 40 minutes of play time. I tried on several occasions to straighten out and kneel/stand. There’s no way! She did lay down on the floor and allowed me to service her and bring her to an orgasm. When she was done, she joked that she should leave me in the humbler during our dinner. I would have to eat while kneeling on all 4. Comical, but not what we did. Yet. Back in the cage for me.

We are open for more bdsm suggestions if anyone has any.

 

As I have mentioned in this thread in the past, my friend and I are very competitive. Well, after yesterday’s results, his favorite team is in the playoffs and mine is out. We had wagered a bet and honestly a month ago, there was no way I could imagine losing. I am now resigned to a humiliating task. I am not sure what that will be, but I am sure that it will be hard but also exhilarating. My wife has asked to be included in the development of the humiliation task. All I know is it will be by Saturday.

 

I would have loved to do this, as I am bi. He on the other hand is totally against it. It has been a while since I have given head. I wouldn’t do it again unless my wife gave me expressed consent though.

 

As I suspected, my humiliation task revolved around me learning to be humble about my bets. We had a double date dinner. During the entire dinner and some time after, I was in the humbler. I did not get to eat with them as I was on the floor. They gave me my plate, but I wasn’t going to eat like a dog. I got a little bit of comfort by slipping down into child’s pose (thank you to my yoga classes). After dinner, I had to crawl to the living room. I got up on the couch which was very uncomfortable. To all of our recollection, this was the first time either of our friends saw me with an erection. Before they left, I was told to go over the edge of the couch while still on the couch. They each took 4 swats with a paddle, 2 on each cheek. My wife took an extra swat that landed on my balls in the humble. I then went back in the cage.

 

It has been a while since I updated this post. This past 3-4 weeks has been a different dynamic in our relationship. By different, I mean traditional. After our last double date, I haven’t been spanked, pegged, humiliated, etc. I have taken the role of a masculine husband. I am still in chastity every day, but our sex dynamic shifted. My wife really wanted PIV and my sole function is to please her. We haven’t had this much traditional sex in years. I can’t remember the last time we did PIV over 5 times in a week. It has been almost a month of it. She is just absolutely craving my penis in her and for me to ejaculate into her. I have willingly complied.
Last night, we had perhaps the best sex in at least the past couple years. To the point that we both were exhausted and spent. It also was the first time in a really long time that I slept without the cage on. I woke up this morning with my first morning wood in probably over a year. I also woke up to my wife’s mouth on my penis in forever. She said, “I just wanted you to feel what it’s like to wake up like a real man this morning.” Once I finished, she swallowed (this was also a very long time, like a decade) and told me to lock back up. She said she is sore from all of the sex lately and wants to rest some. I think this means she’s going to switch back to dominating me, but at this point, I am unsure.

 

My hunch that our roles were reversing back was correct. I have been locked since my last post and honestly I am loving it. I am truly a very versatile partner. I enjoy a little bit of everything in the bedroom. My comfort zone though is caged up on a daily basis.

Although I have been caged for 12 days, the sex hasn’t stopped. I have been the receiver though. Which begs the question… why can I only cum once when I have penile stimulation, but when I bottom, I can cum several times? By several, I mean an orgasm that can last 15-20 minutes. My prostate is very sensitive. I guess I am lucky.

 

Yesterday while I was at work, I got a call from my wife that she was going to be late getting home. She told me that when I get home, I need to prepare myself and she requested that I play with myself. When getting home, I got prepared and text her that I was ready. She responded by telling me to get the suction cup dildo which is about 7.5” and start to ride it. Within a few minutes, I was riding the dildo when I got a video call from her. She was driving her car after leaving work. I asked if she was no longer working late and she responded by saying she was going to be late, not necessarily working late.
I was instructed to place the phone how she could watch and put my earbuds in to talk to her. As I was on the video call with her, I came for the first time. She instructed me to spread my cum on the dildo and put it back in me. A few minutes later, she arrived at our friend’s house. I was told I had to keep going and she was going to watch. I could hear her talking with her friend and pouring a couple glasses of wine. The background noise was loud in my earbuds and I was in bliss. A few minutes later, I caught a glimpse of my best friend out of the corner of my eye. I must have sounded startled, as my wife noticed I was shocked and stopping my actions. I was told not to stop and that I needed to continue.
My friend was shocked. All of the things we have done and shared, he was shocked to see me fucking myself when I was by myself. I think he was set up.
He received a call from his wife and I could hear her in the background on my call. He was instructed to film me as I was fucking myself. My wife instructed me to get the wedge pillow we use in the bedroom and the dildo machine and to take a hard pounding. I did what I was told. I got pretty embarrassed. This was a different dynamic having a straight man watch and film me as my hole was being obliterated. I came from the excitement and started to turn the machine down. My wife noticed this and instructed me to keep up the pace. He was told to collect my cum and rub it on the dildo as it fucked me. I was in bliss and not really paying attention to the phone call. During the session, my wife had left their house and was now home. She excused my friend, told him to go home as his wife wanted him to pound her hard from her excitement. My wife came up to me, shut off the machine and cuddled with me. I was pretty sore, so I ended up doing oral on her before cleaning up. It was a good night.
They all promised to keep the video between us 4.

 

I got a private message with a question about my relationship with my best friend. I figured I would answer it here for everyone.

I am bi. My first sexual experiences were with another guy. At one point several years ago, I was in a relationship with another male. My relationship with my wife has been a platonic relationship. I haven’t had sex with a man while we have been in a relationship. That being said, I think her willingness to peg me scratches an itch that if I was in a traditional relationship, it wouldn’t last.

My best friend, has expressed that he is straight. Our friendship until about a year ago was a complete hetero one as we never really discussed sexual arousal. Why would we have? Once the word was out about chastity, our kinks were out in the open. I am lucky to have a wife and friends that love me for who I am.

There is a very small chance our interactions would ever be physical. Have we seen each other naked? Yes. Have we touched each other? Yes. Would we ever perform sexual acts on each other? Never say never, but he has expressed he isn’t into it. He is ok with playing along to an extent though. I just would never attempt to cross that line with him.

 

Things have been pretty quiet lately. It has been 2 1/2 weeks since my humiliation task and in turn, my last orgasm. We are settling back in to the chastity lifestyle. I did tell her that I preferred to not be allowed an orgasm as it keeps me focused on her. It is a slippery slope, because we also both love the dynamic of a more traditional sex life. For now, I am caged and orgasm free with a stipulation. If I ask for an orgasm before she is willing to give me one, it will be unpleasant.
Unpleasant will probably mean that my orgasm will be ruined and then I will have post-orgasm torture. This is something I crave, until she relentlessly masturbates me after I had orgasmed once, twice, or three times. The last time she did it, I blacked out. It will be a delicate balance between wanting and not wanting that next sexual experience.

 

My wife has been at her new(er) job for less than 6 months. She is working on building those relationships with her peers. Her place of employment is mostly females so there is quite a bit of gossip in the office. This is not about her sharing our dynamic, she wouldn’t do that in her place of employment.

One of the ladies, about 4-5 years younger than us has shared with my wife that she struggles in finding men that respect her. Although she is not my type, I can definitely see how guys would find her attractive. The problem for her is that those guys only build a temporary relationship with her, get laid and move on. In becoming good friends with my wife, she shared that she feels all men are jerks and that she will never find happiness.

My wife decided to invite her to dinner at our place this week. Before she arrived, my wife shared her story and asked me to be sure to demonstrate how a man should treat his love. This wasn’t hard for me because I always show my love and affection in everything I do for her. She was also clear that this evening wasn’t going to be about our kinks, just to help her friend have a good time.
I answered the door and escorted her into the house when she arrived. My wife was on the couch enjoying some wine. I got her some wine as well and then proceeded to make dinner while they chatted. When dinner was ready, I invited them both to the dining room and I pulled the chair out for my wife as I always do. I sat with them and enjoyed dinner. During the meal I got up a couple times to top off their wine, clear the table, bring in dessert. She made a comment about me being the perfect gentleman. I responded by telling her that my desire was to make her feel loved. She said, “How did you find a man like this? How is the sex life?” My wife responded that sex isn’t about what I want, but what she wants and desires. The conversation was pretty much left at that.
When the evening was over, my wife said she desired that I have an orgasm this evening. We went into the bedroom and she performed some mind blowing oral on me. When she released me and ruined my orgasm, put my cum in a jar and then proceeded to get me off again, which was agony. She added that orgasm to the same jar. Two times in a row is difficult but not uncommon for me. I was shaking and short of breath when she said she was going to tie me down for a third. I told her that I wasn’t really going to be able to handle it. She responded with “It’s about my desires, not yours” she strapped my thighs and arms. This orgasm took a while and it was excruciating. At one point it felt painful, followed by intense pleasure. This was a fantasy I have longed for, but didn’t want it in the moment. I came and was spent. 3 orgasms in the past 6 weeks and they were all within 45 minutes of each other. She collected my cum, cleaned me up, locked me up, and then untied me. I just rolled over and fell asleep.

 

Over the past year to year and a half, I have made some major lifestyle changes. No, this isn’t all kink. I have changed my diet, exercise every day, take the stairs instead of elevators, etc. I am generally in the best shape of my life.
I am training to run a marathon. I run often. One of the agreements my wife and I have is when I go for my long runs, I can unlock. Most of the time I do. I have run around 15 miles with a cage on, so I know I can do it. But, I prefer not to have it on. When I finish, I take a shower and ice up. Then it’s back in the cage for me.
My wife totally understands and agrees for me to have the cage off when I run those long distances. But, when I do strength exercises, the cage is on. I still consider that I have been locked up long term, even though I take it off to run. I wear a tight jockstrap, never get an erection, and it’s for my well-being.

 

My wife is leaving to go out of town in the middle of the day today. This morning before work, we sat down and had a nice breakfast together before getting ready for work. We don’t often spend a lot of time away from each other so this will be a little different. When we kissed goodbye this morning, she said she had some plans for me to have a sexually charged 4 days. I’m not sure what that means… I love that she goes out of her way to surprise me though.
I left for work and she was still getting ready. I think she purposely waited to get a shower until I was getting ready to walk out the door so I could see her naked.

 

My wife is amazing! If you read my journal, you already know that. If not, this will convince you!

She left to fly out of town for 4 days earlier this afternoon. She worked half a day and had her friend from work drive her to the airport. Part of the deal was that her friend would keep her car for the weekend as her house is closer to the airport than ours. This is an important detail for later.

When I arrived home from work, she had laid out 4 dildos on the bed. 6.5”, 7”, 7.5” and 8.5”. All of which attach to our automatic fucking machine. Attached to each dildo with a rubber band was a 1 oz bottle of lube, each different. There is a note on my nightstand that reads.

“I am going to miss you so much this weekend my love! Just because I will be out of town, doesn’t mean we both can’t have some fun. I have taken my vibrator with me. In return, you will be having lots of sex this weekend, albeit caged. Remember the delicious breakfast this morning? Have you been extra horny and tight in your cage today? I put a coal is in your orange juice. There are 3 more in the envelope on the night stand. You will take one each morning and record yourself doing it. You have to stay as hard as possible this weekend!
Now, for the toys I have left you. I have a challenge for you. Every time you are hard and horny, you are going to fuck yourself. I want you to start with the smallest cock and work your way up. Only 1 cock per day! (Don’t be such a slut ) The lube attached to each is the only lube you can use, with an exception. I know you are going to be super horny all weekend, so I got a large tub of coconut oil for your “pleasure”. Once the tube of lube is empty for each cock, you will fill your mouth with coconut oil and deep throat your fuck toy for the day and put it back in your ass. If you need more coconut oil on your dildo, you have to put it on with your mouth. No hands! I’m looking forward to videos of you deep throating each one!

I know there are risks with taking cialis. I have left the keys close by. Last night, I got the spare key from (our best friend) and placed both keys on my car key ring. As you know, (friend) has my car for the weekend. If you have an erection for more than 4 hours, you will need to call her and explain why you need the keys. I didn’t tell her. I suggest you fuck yourself really good so you don’t have to tell her!

Knowing your weekend ahead of you has made me so wet! I hope you enjoy, as I started planning this in February. I want you to cum as many times as you possibly can. In the bottom right drawer of the freezer, is the container I have been storing your cum. There are 4 compartments in the container. You must fill each compartment with your cum before moving to the next. Collect EVERYTHING you leak this weekend. Make sure to take your pill each morning!

I love you babe! We will FaceTime all weekend so I can check up on you. I hope you enjoy your challenge!”


Holy shit! This is really happening. I have a lot to do this weekend!

 

A few observations from last night.

That felt amazing! I came twice and collected both samples as instructed.

1 oz of lube isn’t a whole lot. I went through the whole bottle in 10 minutes.

Coconut oil makes an amazing lubricant. I lubed it up as instructed and holy cow! Amazing. I took it harder and faster than I typically do. The taste wasn’t bad either, which was a welcomed surprise. I think I found a new preference in lube, plus my skin on my butt and balls is so smooth today as well.

 

I did the 7” challenge today. I asked my wife if I could skip the line and just use the coconut oil. She said no, because she wants me to try different lubes to see if there is something that feels better than others. Today’s lube was menthol. It stung a little for the cooling effect. Once I came, I had finished the bottle and moved on to the coconut oil. I actually came 2 more times. This dildo has a curve to it. I flipped it to make sure it was straight fucking my prostate. I almost passed out! After my 2nd cum, I got a video from my wife of he with her vibrator. She was in the hotel room enjoying herself

I realize I am one of the lucky few that can cum so much while taking it anally. To me, the orgasm is just so much better and I can cum a lot more.

 

I’m a day behind… I was busy yesterday ! ☺️

Since it is the weekend and I don’t have to work, I have had a lot more time on my hands. I am not a guy that typically needs cialis. That being said, taking it has led to a lot of attempted erections. The best I can do each time is milk my prostate.

After day 3 and already started day 4, I am maintaining that I love the coconut oil as lube. It’s going to become a staple of sex lives. I have also rubbed it around my whole body since it makes everything so moisturizingly smooth. I know my butt is definitely moisturized.

My wife comes home today. She told me to be done with the bottle of lube before she gets home. I have already taken the largest dildo this morning and used most of it, so not a problem. Also, between my sexcapades this weekend and previously, we have a little over 2 shot glasses saved up of my cum. I’m curious as to what she has planned…