Locked Journey

Last night, on the last day of November, my wife and I sat down for a discussion. It was really more listening on my behalf than a discussion but here is the main part of the discussion.
Today, I am to leave work early. As I suspected, no shave November is over. She informed me that I am getting my first waxing. I asked if I was going to be unlocked for the event and she said no. For the past 6 years, she has gone to the same beautician. This lady has become close friends with my wife and they have shared a lot of information with each other. When I asked how much she knew, the response was “she knows about our sex life sweetie.” Now, this isn’t going to be some fantasy come true as she is a lesbian and I’m about to have every hair ripped out of my body. The only parts of my body that are not going to be waxed this afternoon are my head hair and my arms below the elbow. Everything else is coming off.
Before we go, I need to be cleaned out and ready. The instruction is that when we arrive, my wife will go into one room and I will go into the other. I am to strip down and wait the entire time. Since she is going first, it may be a while. This is at her private studio and there is no expectation of visitors during our appointment.
I just got home and I am ready to prepare to go. My wife will be here shortly. I’m nervously excited about this. How bad could it be?

 

So that was interesting…

we arrived at the salon and we were both escorted to different rooms. Remember, my wife did not want to see me “unkept” so I would need to be waxed before she would see me naked again. I laid in my room, naked except the cage for a little over an hour. When S came in to start the waxing, she briefly spoke to me about the fact that she was aware of our relationship dynamic. I covered my cage up but in our conversation, I felt so comfortable. Also… what’s the point. She’s going to see everything anyway.
She started at my elbows and arms, across my chest and stomach. I don’t have any hair really on my back so that wasn’t too bad. The worst was the arm pits. I wasn’t expecting that. Then she did my feet and up my legs.
I expected my butt and area under my balls to hurt really bad. Don’t get me wrong, it hurt! But, not as bad as expected. After she did my butt, I flipped back over. She then pulled the key from her pocket. I was a little shocked and did not expect her to have the key. S said that she had to make sure she got everything super smooth. She unlocked me and I got my first full erection in about 2 months. It didn’t take long to lose it, as the pain from the grooming took away the focus.
When she finished, she pulled a small bag from under the table. She then yelled out of the room and told my wife she was done and then the expected result had happened. They were anticipating me getting an erection and had a punishment for it. I was supposed to have 6 more days until the smaller cage. Now, S was putting on the shortest cage of my life, just minutes after waxing all the hair off my body for an hour and a half.
So then we went home. I think this post is long enough, but let’s just say I finally had some orgasms, plural! And I was locked the whole time.

 

When we got home, my wife told me she was proud of me for going over 2 months without an erection but was disappointed that I had one. She said that she would play with me anyway but I wasn’t coming out of the cage until at least the new year. The emphasis was on “at least”.

We did some temperature play today. I guess it was the freshly smooth skin, but holy cow was my skin sensitive. In a good way. I got plugged and then lots of foreplay. I was tied in multiple compromising positions and teased. We also did a lot of pegging. I have no idea how she had so much energy. At one point, I was tied and laid over the edge of the couch. She just took me from behind for a really long time. At least 30 minutes of constant, relentless pounding. She used the doc Johnson filled with lube so she kept squirting it to keep me going. The couch has a smooth finish and she placed a bowl at the bottom of the arm rest. After 30 minutes, she scraped up my 3 orgasms and lots of leaking into the bowl. I got about a 20 minute break where I just laid there, trying to rest with a pulsating hole. It’s just a feeling I cannot describe!

We then moved to the bedroom. I was on the edge of the bed, she used the ropes to tie my thighs back so I was completely opened on the edge of the bed. I then got pegged again. This time was for about 15 minutes. In the middle of this, the ring camera rang. She told me to pick it up as it was our friends. I answered and had to tell them to come on in, “I am getting the fucking of a lifetime, just make yourself comfortable.”

So my wife finished up, and collected the rest of what was peaked. It was A LOT. She told me our friends came over with dinner as I was going to need to eat and stay hydrated. The option if I wanted the grilled chicken dinner though was that I had to drink up my mess first before I got untied. I agreed and then we went to the dining room. I had clothes on at this point, but I did model my smooth body and smaller cage. My friend did beg a little to not have to go into that smaller cage.
So that is where we are right now. I took a break after dinner and wrote the recaps. The focus was on me and allowing me some orgasms. I was told I need to worship her tonight and in the morning but this weekend is going to be spent with us fulfilling each other’s needs.

 

Blessing and a curse. That’s how I would describe the ability to have an orgasm anally. It must have something to do with the location of my prostate. I don’t know, but I can have the most intense orgasm just from anal sex. The fluid leakage is consistent as well. There is a constant leaking and then spurts on some strong thrusts.

That is a lot of TMI. But it’s important to our story. I have known this for a long time. My wife had just discovered this “ability” when we ventured into pegging. That is why she put a restriction on anything anal during November. December on the other hand is going to be full of orgasms for both of us. I just won’t have any full erections. Yesterday, I asked as we were having sex if I was ever going to feel inside her again. She asked me if I was sure I wanted to ask. Then, she tied me up (we are getting more into bondage, it’s a size thing. I am bigger and stronger than her so she gets powerful when I am tied and immobilized). I literally couldn’t move. She put the largest plug in me and said, “ Of course you will fuck me again. But, it won’t be this year and I am tired of hearing you ask me. You can lay there and think about that for a while.”

My legs were beginning to crap up about an hour and a half later. She then came in, asked me how I felt which I told her that the restraints were tight, a rope was cutting off circulation and my legs were cramping. She said good and proceeded to peg in that position for a solid 20 minutes. I was then released.

We are heading over to our friend’s house this afternoon for some football fun. I hope these rope marks disappear off my lower back and thighs!

 

What a great weekend. It isn’t often that I am the center of our relationship. Which, to be fair, I don’t really want to be. Occasionally though, it is nice to be.

We went over to our friend’s house for the afternoon. For the most part, it was uneventful. It was a good time of friendship. The only thing that was out of the ordinary (which I guess is ordinary now because we have become so free and open with each other) was that my friend back talked his wife slightly. Nothing too outrageous. Her response was to tell him to go to the guest house in the back and assume the position. I didn’t get to see what happened next as my wife told me that I was being perfect and loving. I could stay there and enjoy another drink. The two of them went out there, were gone maybe 15 minutes and returned without him. We then visited for about 30 minutes before they went back out. I didn’t see him, but he apparently he got tied up and had some clamps on him. When they returned, he was spanked and sent back to the main house by walking across the yard naked. His butt was sooo red. I also got to see the smaller cage on his bigger framed body. He is over 6 foot tall so it is kind of jarring to see such a small “penis”, although I know when we are not caged he is bigger than me.

He was told not to cover up the art work and either had to stand or kneel the rest of our visit, no sitting down.

When we got home, I was told to go to our room and put in a larger plug and to lay face down with my butt in the air. My wife came in and said I was going to get “fucked so good” but first she needed to get me ready. She tied my arms to my lower legs. I couldn’t move to protect my butt or my exposed balls. She then said, “ I am going to fuck you really hard, but first I want to try flogging you a little bit. I won’t go too wild.” I then took 8 strokes that were across my butt and balls and I couldn’t move. She then put on the strap and gave it to me really good for about 15 minutes. I was thankful she got tired. I didn’t know how much more I had in me. She then collected up my cum and put in a jar with the amount from the morning. I asked if I was going to need to eat it, and she told me not now but maybe later. She untied me and we went to bed. She was spooning me and rubbing my sore butt as I drifted asleep.

 

Yesterday was my best friend’s birthday. We have a tradition that on each of our 4 birthdays, we get together for dinner. It usually consists of dinner and a cards game. Over the past year, that tradition has evolved and some more kinky things have taken place. Last night’s festivities started off in a typical manner. We had them over for dinner, we had a very “normal” dinner and conversation. As we were eating dessert, my wife asked him what he wanted more than anything for his birthday. He said that he wanted to take his wife and make love to her without any chastity or femdom connotations. A straight man on woman relations where he could take the lead. Apparently on their cruise, she controlled all of the sex they were having. I enjoyed listening to the conversation and chiming in occasionally. Then, his wife asked me “What would you want to do more than anything?” I stated that I just want to be able to jerk off. Not anything special, just to stroke my dick.

A few minutes passed and my friend and I were clearing the table. The ladies excused themselves that they would be right back. As I put dessert on the table, they returned with a Strapon. Not just any Strapon, but my mold which has a key inside it (after changing cages so many times, that key no longer would unlock my cage). The ladies announced that he would get his wish when they went home, but since we are such good friends, they would allow me to have a wish as well. I would get to stroke “my dick” all through dessert. The thought of this got me so turned on and humiliated. I then pulled my pants down past my knees with the strap on over my cage and proceeded to “play with myself” for the duration of dessert under the table. If I slowed down, my wife would continue to remind me to speed up and to act like I was enjoying it and about to cum. It was fun.

As they left for the evening, our friends were at the door and she said “A real man is going to fuck me good tonight. I hope it lasts more than 3 minutes.” I can’t help but wonder how the rest of their evening went. We have not had a chance to text today.

As for us, my wife asked if I wanted to get pegged last night and that it would be up to me. I declined and she respected that. It has been a really long week of 12 hour days and then the dinner plans last night.

 

I appreciate that. As you may have noticed from my journal, this is a relatively new process for us. Stay honest with yourself and your significant other. It may one day happen for you!

 

It’s starting to get late today, but here how our evening went. My wife wanted to be taken tonight. She called me into the bedroom as I was finishing cleaning the kitchen. There were 2 dildos laying on the bed. the one molded of my penis and then a much larger one. She said I get to choose which one I use on her as a strap on. I was goin g to get to get to do her first and then she would do me.

I chose the smaller one that is my clone. I put it on and had her riding me for about 15 minutes. She said that it was enough and now was her turn. “I’m tired and want to go to bed so you aren’t going to clean it. You get the big one tonight.” I’ve been pegged 9 times in 7 days of December. I may need a break…

 

It has been about a week since my last update. So far through December, it has been much the same. I have been locked 24/7, the pegging has continued, and my wife has enjoyed countless orgasms. Actually, to be honest, we both have. As mentioned before, I am sooooo sensitive anally, I can cum within a few minutes. I think this is a result of both being physically able to but also there’s a mental/emotional aspect as well. I will myself to absolute pleasure whenever I am being stimulated.

One thing that will never be on the table in our relationship is sex with others. I speak a lot about our friends and our growing dynamic and our mutual love of femdom and chastity. It has strictly remained that. Yes, we all have been naked together. We have had sex with our spouses while the others have been present. There was even instances where we touched each other while naked. There will never be any sex. That is a boundary that has been set. But, I tell you what, we all enjoy seeing each other in pleasure/pain/agonizing for release. In fact, I would say that over the last year we have seen each other more frequently than we had over the previous couple years combined.

After that side note, a little about the last week. I have taken up exercising a lot. I do all my exercising at home right now. We have weights, a fitness program on my phone, and a treadmill. The treadmill is on the back patio and our back yard is completely secluded. Over the summer, I often swim in a speedo or nude without worry of anyone seeing me. It’s my thing. Well, the other day, all of my exercise clothes were dirty and in the wash. My wife told me that I would be allowed on this occasion to put on boxer briefs (I am strictly a briefs guy. Number one, they are comfortable. Number 2, I like everything tight and packaged, number 3, I don’t have much to let hang free especially with the cage). So, I put on my boxer briefs with a tank top and exercised on the treadmill. I felt exposed without being exposed. It was an interesting dynamic.

On Sunday, we went for brunch with our friends and then over to our friend’s house. We watched some football. My team was doing awful and my language was horrible. I am passionate about sports. I was told that it would be better if I didn’t watch and to go into their weight room/sex room. My wife came with me. She pegged me really good then tied me up to the exercise equipment. I was spanked while tied to the bench for my behavior and language. My butt was so red. Our friends came in to view her handy work. She made a comment that I could take a few more hits and handed my wife a paddle with a couple holes in it. Holy crap! How is it that the areas that were hit wear the holes are are the most sore and discolored 3 days later?!?! I’ll watch my mouth from now on!
Monday and Tuesday was routine stuff. When we messed around, my wife would poke at the sores/bruised. That sent a series of pain/pleasure through my body.

And now it’s Wednesday. I have no idea where we are going from here this week. I was asked if I knew what a humbler was and if I would like to receive something like that for Christmas. I do know what it is, but I don’t know. That looks painful. Does anyone have any experience?

 

I didn’t add this to the last post because of the length and frankly, it deserves its own post. We had a discussion this weekend as friends. One of the wives posed the question to us about how we feel about being in chastity and whether we feel like less of a man. I took a minute to respond but my friend responded immediately. Keep in mind that his endowment is larger than average so he may have a differing view a little bit.

He said that he doesn’t feel like less of a man because he can do something that MOST men cannot do. He can withhold an orgasm for as long as his love of his life wants him to. He said he may feel a little humiliated if he was ever in a situation where another person besides us 3 saw him in his cage, but he could quickly respond that he does it for his wife’s pleasure. Something most men don’t have the balls to do. Pun intended.

My response was initially “ditto” but then I shared a little more. I feel the same way. I grew up ashamed that I was below average. I really am not, but I was taught that I was. I just got over it. Being on the swim team, I showered in public, completely nude. I competed in swimming events in front of 100s of people in barely enough fabric to cover my butt crack and penis. All those guys in the locker room that pointed out that I was smaller than them, not one of them is in my life anymore. I hope they are satisfying their significant other with their larger dicks because I know I satisfy my wife in ways that make both of us happy. That’s what being a caring and loving husband is. Then I got spanked an hour later… hahaha

 

Yesterday, I got my first punishment which was not explicitly kinky in any way. I actually deserved it. Without going into too much detail, I mistreated someone. My wife saw it and immediately called me out for being an ass. I apologized and moved on.
When the way home, she told me how embarrassed she was that I just would be that rude to someone. I apologized again. She then told me that I was going to be punished when we got home and I wasn’t going to like it. I was instructed to immediately strip at the door. And go lay over the corner of the coach. She came in with a paddle, whip, and rope. My hands and legs were tied down and she proceeded to spank me. Full force. She was breathing heavy as she changed my skin color from hitting me so hard.
We utilize the stoplight color system. Typically, if I am ever in any pain and at yellow, she backs off. I told her that I was at yellow last night as she smacked my cheeks with the paddle. She switched to hitting the back of my legs just below my cheeks. When I screamed red, she smacked me 1 more time on each leg. She then waited about 3-4 minutes and then started to whip me on the butt again. A few minutes later, I screamed “Red!” She landed 4 more seats of the paddle, 2 on each cheek. She then reiterated that I really embarrassed and upset her. My behavior was unacceptable. I got the point.

Today, I made the mistake of wearing jeans to work. The rough denim on my legs is not pleasant at all! I text my wife that once again, I am so sorry for my behavior. She responded that it is over and she doesn’t want to think about it any more. She instructed me not to bring it up again.

 

A few days after the fact, I am still filled with remorse for the way I acted. After cooling down, we sat down and discussed what happened and the punishment. I promised to do my best to never disappoint and embarrass her like that again. She said that initially, she was going to withhold sex until at least January, but probably longer. She felt that that would be a punishment for her as well. She also said we cannot stop loving each other because then we can grow apart. I agreed.
The next part of the conversation centered around other punishments. I’m not really sure we came up with ways to punish me when I misbehave other than her saying my butt would be bruised and and she wouldn’t avoid punishing my balls next time.

This week, there isn’t much planned. We have a dinner date with our friends on Wednesday and that’s it for plans.

 

I can definitely see your point, but it isn’t like that. If it was like that, I wouldn’t post it on the internet. We have a safe word for immediately stopping. I didn’t use it. The red light system is more of how much more I can take. When we discussed months ago, it was determined that green was full go, yellow was slowing down, and red was just about to the safe word. Much like pulling up to a traffic light, one would continue up to the intersection before stopping. One more swat on each leg was the final pull forward to the white light.

We are very much in a loving relationship. She would not cross a boundary I wouldn’t want crossed. That last hit put me right at the point of saying the safe word and she stopped in just enough time, because we know each other.

 

Update time: On Wednesday, we had our Holiday dinner with our friends. At 3:30 PM, I received a text from my love that she placed something in my bag this morning and I need to “go put it in now”. She said at 5:00, go straight home and clean up. I went into my bag to find a plug. It was a medium size, not large but I definitely knew it was present during the last hour and a half of work.

I got home and took a shower. I put the plug back in even though she didn’t explicitly tell me to. When she got home, I got a wonderful kiss and a pat on my hole. She told me I was a great husband and that I always know what she wants.

Our guests arrived. It was some time before dinner started. We decided to exchange gifts with each other before we ate. The theme for the night was “naughty gifts”. The 2 males went first, we were told to open our boxes together. The boxes were empty, because we had matching plugs in. Then we both got another gift. Mine was a much larger plug and he received a Strapon (his first “official” Strapon) and it was larger than his plug. My wife received a nice lingerie set, which looks fantastic on her btw. His wife received a queening chair. It’s a portable chair, but definitely for her pleasure. As a group gift, we were playing a new sex game for the night they found at Spencer’s.

We ate dinner then played the game. It was a mixture of truth and dare. Honestly, the dare cards were not that crazy. At least they weren’t for me. I’ll do anything once

After the alcohol had been flowing for several hours, we each got to try out our new gifts. I swapped out my plug while my wife changed inter her lingerie. He put together the chair while she took off her panties (she was wearing a dress) and she put on the new Strapon. They put on a show for us. Holy hell, it was hot! We have seen them be sexual with each other, but this was a new level. I think he’s finally seeing how great being pegged is. At least that’s what the stain on his jock strap would indicate. I’m happy, because it is something I absolutely love and we talk so much that it is just natural to talk about.

 

The past week or so has been pretty quiet. On Christmas night, I got the opportunity to us a strap-on on her. I was given the rare opportunity of doing anal with her. She made me use the small dildo as she doesn’t often do anal. It is a strange concept to me. I love getting pegged, she is not that into it. I guess it is anatomy related… but that was a rare treat for me since September.

Refelcting on this past year, it has been great for us. Taking an opportunity to learn each other and explore even after being together so long is important. We have done things we never dreamed of doing. We expanded our relationship and our relationship with our friends. We are more comfortable doing things that we thought were untouchable a year ago. For the new year, I want to try being more submissive and more spanking. The feeling of being dominated is amazing to me. The feeling of helplessness after being whipped and left to feel the heat of my bottom is something I am starting to crave. I am looking forward to all that and then some!

 

Happy New Year!

I made it the entire 100 days without being unlocked, except to get a smaller cage. It was a major accomplishment. My wife and I have never been closer. As we approached midnight, we discussed what this next year is going to bring to us. There is way too much to share about our aspirations and I would rather share on this post how my streak of not having penile stimulation was broken.

We had a long discussion about how my next orgasm was going to take shape. We do not believe in total denial from PIV sex. We enjoy the thrill of chastity and pegging, but also the passion of good old “typical” sex. We were along for the stroke of midnight this year. I was given an ultimatum that I would have to choose by 11:59:59 PM in order to take advantage.
Option 1: we continue our journey of denial for a little longer, perhaps Valentine’s Day.
Option 2: I would be given a “mind blowing” orgasm of her choice on the 1st. The promise was that I would get to have a full orgasm, not ruined orgasm. I would then lock back up until Valentine’s Day.
Option 3: We could make love on the 1st and I wouldn’t get an orgasm by her, but I would stay unlocked until at least Valentine’s Day.

Which option would YOU choose?

I chose option 2. The stroke of midnight, we kissed, I got to make love to her with my tongue, and we went to bed.

I have this kink about being woken up for sex. It’s like my brain has no idea what is about to happen and I just thoroughly enjoy it. Well, she woke me up and then said before I get my orgasm, she was going to deprive me of my senses. I got blindfolded, gagged, and tied down on the bed. She removed the cage and climbed on top. She then whispered in my ear, not to cum and to tell her when I was close. She then put ear plugs and ear muffs on me. I lasted about 4-5 minutes of PIV before o was very close. She hopped off and I came every where, completely ruined. I was confused because option2 came with a non-ruined orgasm. She took the ear protection off my right ear and said, “All going according to plan, here comes your full orgasm now.”
She scooped up my cum from my stomach.
Within a few seconds, I felt my fleshlight start to glide down my penis. It was super wet and super sensitive. One of my kinks at the beginning of our relationship was to have multiple orgasms in a row. Now that I am not in my 20s and over 40, I can’t handle it. It is way too sensitive. I didn’t have much of a choice, as I was tied down. I came in buckets. It took about 8-10 minutes, but I came so freaking hard and so freaking much. I was blindfolded so it was already dark, but I basically blacked out from the intensity. She took off the ear protection and the gag from my mouth and told me how much she loves me. She then made out with me, followed by being fed both loads. It was so good. I’m glad I put pineapple in my workout shakes

She cleaned me up and put me back into my cage. Then, she pointed out that it wasn’t fair that I got to cum twice and she didn’t come at all. She untied me, helped me get the Strapon on, and then I continued to make love to her. The whole event took about 2 hours from being woken up to the end. We took a shower together. She said I can cum again but would have to do it right then. I couldn’t do it… Here’s to waiting until Valentine’s Day! Happy New Year!

 

I didn’t want to add this to the prior entry since it was so long. But, I want to share some of the “resolutions” we discussed.
1. Loctober was 100 days this past year. It will be longer. Maybe starting in August.
2. Every 2-4 months, I am going to get waxed. We both enjoyed it.
3. We will try a flat cage. Not sure if I am going to wear it for an extended time though.
4. She wants to punish me in front of our friends. This one is definitely going to be negotiable. Although I enjoy the pain and humiliation, we will have a long discussion before it takes place.
5. I want to try being tied up for an extended period. Not just an hour or so, but for 8-10 hours.
6. She wants to peg me in public. Again, this will need to be negotiated and arranged. I’m good with a public pegging as long as it is with a group of fellow ministers. Maybe some type of club?

 

My wife and I have been discussing ways to implement ball torture to our relationship. While in chastity, I am mostly just balls. It is easy to smack and grab them. We have discussed using the flogger and paddle on my balls from behind. We bought a humbler which should be delivered in the next day or so. We are looking forward to trying this as it will pull my balls behind me to make more accessible to play and impact. But, judging by the design, I’m not sure I will be able to have it on while also in chastity. For now, we are not concerned with limiting erections. Does anyone know of another device to use?

 

You bring up a really good point. The erection just proves that it is enjoyable which I guess is a good thing for both. I am not in an erection free time period, I am in a penis orgasm free time period. My next erection free time isn’t until the end of summer some time starting the loctober festivities early, so I guess it isn’t going to be much of a problem.

The other question I have about the humbler is that I am pretty high and tight. I imagine it’s really going to stretch me. I’m looking forward to it.

 

I just checked the order. The humbler should be delivered some time today. Maybe I will have a report to give by the weekend.