Keyholders - How has chastity changed how you see your husband?

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    I remember my wife telling me not so long ago that I did not get very many blowjobs anymore because she does not think a man who wears a cock cage deserves them. She said before chastity, she felt a sense that I deserved to get head and she was to provide it.

    Have other Keyholders here felt a change in how they view their husbands after locking them up?
     
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    Despite being told there are quite a few women on here ( which
    i doubted ) ,I don't see any answering this thread .
     
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    Well i think most members, like you, don't really post often. They read the threads and only comment now and then. Especially if they are Domme they may not feel like responding to every request.
     
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    yeah I agree ,that could be the reason.. I had been away for a year or so , but am back now, and posting kinda ,a fair bit .. I look forward to reading any female posts , I read most posts , but I like the ones by the Ladies best .
     
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    Well glad you are back and i do hope you post more. I agree totally about reading posts from women and unfortunately how few are here. A question like this one would enlighten the males, but it may not be worth their time to share.
     
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    Because my hubby drew my attention to this topic, i want to respond.
    I definitely got a different look through our chastity life. Because i came early in menopause (39) i had no desire to have sex. It felt like i had to please him.
    Now I'm almost rid of it and in combination with chastity that's really improving.
    I see my hubby differently and I'm super in love.
     
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    My wife said she never liked performing oral on me and only did it out of obligation, especially since she loved receiving oral. She said that enforced male chastity has completely freed her from this burden.
     
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    It's actually made me realize what a wonderful guy he is and how lucky I am to have him.

    Like I've posted on other threads, I was insecure and mousey when it came to men. It was a complete opposite of what I was at work or life in general. Husband then boyfriend encouraged me to speak up and do something about what I didn't like.

    I felt Chastity and Discipline were what I needed to keep him from doing things I didn't like. He agreed to both of them. Unlike a lot of the members here, I introduced husband then boyfriend to Chastity and Discipline. He never had any desire for either one. He does it for me because he wants me to feel at ease and comfortable speaking up where he's concerned.

    He doesn't like being locked up, spanked (especially in front of other ladies. Guys are a hard limit except for events or get togethers--even those were a hard limit at first) or made to eat his ejaculate, but he does it for me.

    I'm lucky to have a guy who will go to those lengths just to please me.
     
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    @Cecilia B ...And your husband is lucky to have you as his wife and Key Holder.
     
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