Hi there! I'm jester, and welcome to my diary: jester's Life In Ruins... Relax about that 'ruin' part, it happens to be a good thing (at least from my perspective). You might have already guessed the reference, but perhaps not. Let's just say that in addition to chastity, one of my hobbies is having 'ruined orgasms'. Ruined orgasm? Yes, really. For the unaware, that is what happens when, right at the last second, stimulation just...stops. What otherwise would've been fireworks, pleasure, joyous bliss, or the adjective(s) of your choice, becomes a mildly enjoyable, less than it should've been, 'downer' of an orgasm, with oozing instead of squirting. They're wonderful...in their own way, but they're not remotely as fun as the real thing. So that would be the happy usage of 'ruin', in both my username and diary title. Relax, I have my share of regular, wonderful orgasms. But a majority of mine are ruined, so it is pertinent info. So who is jester? Well, I'm your average, mid-30's white guy. I've got a variety of kink-interests, two of which you've already figured out. The one, I mentioned above, the other would be chastity. Some other time, I'll mention the others, if I remember. I've been interested in chastity, and in & out of cb's for 5+ years now. Recently, I took a break from chastity for a while, but am now getting back 'into' it, as it were. When I made that decision, I decided to splurge a little bit, and ordered the cb-6000. My prior penile prisons include a pink cb-2000, and both the clear & black versions of the cb-3000. No 'Curve' for me, that thing is way too big for my lil' guy. Not too long after making that decision, I stumbled across the Chastity Mansion, so that's why I'm here. This place is great! I'm looking forward to having a more thorough look around, and updating my diary. That's about all I can think of at the moment. Please forgive the condition of my profile, avatar & such. I'll get things filled in & updated as time permits. Also, a more personal avatar is forthcoming. I just need my cb to arrive first. In the interim, I'm enjoying my erections while they last (especially morning wood), as well as the last few times I'll get to pee standing up. All I need now is to have that 'last orgasm for a while', and to find a package on my doorstep. Then the real party starts.