I've been permitted to post. Just wanted to say hello.

Currently a captive ape. I started being locked full time approximately 48 hours ago after starting a trial period in Jan. Wife is my current KH, and is somewhat new to this.

Here is my full starter story if you're interested in a longer read. I originally posted this on FetLife.

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I just dropped my wife at the airport as she's off to see a friend for a week. She's done that before, so that doesn't normally phase me. It usually gives me time to get things done around the house and spend some time decompressing from the hustle and bustle and just providing me some me time. What's makes this trip different from the previous ones is I currently have a chastity cage locked on. There is a key in a lockbox that she controls the codes for, but she is wearing the primary key around her neck. I'm not quite sure how this week is going to go.

For a very long time I have wanted to be more submissive in our relationship, particularly in the bedroom. I have a very demanding job, that requires me to be in control ALL the time. I can be quite weighty. And my wife has assumed the stereotypical housewife role. She almost always defers to me, and I make almost all of the decisions. I've always wanted her to take charge especially in the bedroom as a way of giving up some of my control. While she has been understanding and willing to participate but really hasn't assumed control like I have been begging for. Most of our play in this regard so far has been my topping from the bottom. Which I'm not really a fan of.

As we're approaching another decade of being married, my desire to be dominated and made to submit and her not taking the lead has really lowered my interest in sex. The complications of a busy work and personal schedule have just taken their toll and we've pretty much been suffering from a dead bedroom for the last year. We've had sex, but it's been very infrequent and mostly mechanical on my part. I found I was masturbating a lot more, and seeking out femdom porn where I could find it. I have always been interested in male chastity and felt that this was really something I wanted to explore. To me, being dominated and taking a submissive role in my sex life wasn't just a kink I wanted to try. Something in me needs to explore it. An itch that has to be scratched. I need to see how deep this rabbit hole goes. It got to the point where I was beginning to seek out a professional dominatrix I could visit. However, doing so without discussing with the wife first was off the table, and I knew she probably would not agree to that.

At the beginning of the year, I found an interesting site from a Reddit post on helping your wife understand male chastity. This is the site: https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/

My wife has always been willing to try different kinks - at least ones that impact me more than her. I sent her the link and told her to read through the whole thing at her own pace and then we'd discuss it. When she finished reading, I asked her opinion. She seemed generally interested and wanted to try it at least. I still had concerns on whether this would be another topping from the bottom scenario for me, but I decided to give it a shot.

I ordered a device from Kink3D, and we spent the next few weeks in early Jan and Feb doing trials. Finding the right device has been difficult to be sure. Finding a device that wouldn't be totally uncomfortable and obviously would fit properly was key. We finally found the best fit to be the Kink3D size 3 ring with the N wide Cobra cage. We set a target to proceed slowly and aim for me to be locked during the entire trip to her friend's house. On the lead up to Super Bowl Sunday I had been trying to wear the device for a full day. I just couldn't make it. Mostly just because I would get pinched, chafe a bit, or some other issue. I haven't even attempted to wear it overnight yet. She was sympathetic and let me out pretty much whenever I wanted even though she holds both keys. We had a date scheduled for Super Bowl Sunday, and she insisted I wear the cage on our date. She wore the key on a necklace on our date and spent most of the dinner (either subconsciously or consciously) touching the key. This turned me on so much.

When we got home, she blew my mind with a session that I can detail later. I went to bed unlocked that night because I was still not ready to try. Even though I was unlocked, I was not allowed to cum that night and had a very, very red ass from asking for the session to go longer when she said we were done with the night. This seemed like things were really beginning to shift.

As per our plan, I had purchased an electronic lock box. Mostly meant for AirBnBs I think. She can open the device remotely, or even provide me with a code in an emergency. We had tested the device several times to work out some technical kinks. But we got into a routine that I would lock up in the morning put the key in the lock box and then unlock pretty much late afternoon/evening when I felt it was too much. She still let me out whenever I asked though by unlocking the key box. Since I still hadn't attempted an overnight, we discussed not being locked the whole time she was gone. I came away from that conversation assuming that I would be allowed a code every night to unlock.

On Valentines day, I had been wearing the cage the longest yet. I had put it on in the morning after my shower and it had been on all day. I even wore it to run errands that day. I did ask if it were possible that I may be able to cum that day before she left. She told me flat out - "that's for me to decide". Early in the evening, I asked if she wanted to open the box to get the key out before bed. Her response was, "no". She didn't elaborate, just said "no". She then told me to lay a blanket on the couch and take off all my clothes. I was to lay on the couch with nothing on but my cage while we watched TV.

When it was time for bed, she told me to get the key, and did unlock me. She did allow me to cum that night, and it was surprising how she managed it. Another good session to detail another time. It was short, but still showed lots of promise.

This leads me back to the beginning. Her flight left early morning on the 15th. When the alarm went off, I jumped into the shower and got ready to leave. She insisted I put the cage on, then locked the spare key in the lock box. The other key hanging from the chain on her neck. We drove to the airport, and I helped her get her luggage out of the car. As we kissed and hugged, these were the last words she said to me before walking into the airport.

"Enjoy your week. You may or may not get those codes as we discussed, that is up to me. Love you, have fun"

I guess ready or not, I'm in this now. I have no idea if I will even be unlocked this week. I'm a bit concerned about that first overnight, but I guess I don't have any say in the matter at this point.

Just how deep does this rabbit hole go?

 

It's a Kink3D Cobra N Standard cage with a size 3 curved ring. I already have to downsize though.

 

I've started posting here if you want to follow more of my life down the rabbit hole.

https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...at-caged-the-beast-my-chastity-journey.54822/