Hi all After a long time out, my wife is FINALLY on board with me being locked up. It’s been quite a year... my wife has been suffering not the best of health, acid reflux, so by the end of the day, she has not been in the mood... we have gone a few months with no sexual activity whatsoever. I on the other hand have been working from home for 8 months, and to be honest, have got into the habit of wanking myself daily. Even to the point of being late for online meetings as I was simply enjoying myself too much. I ended up coming clean, so to speak, to my wife, who immediately said, “cage him!”. That was 28 days ago. We actually stopped and discussed things and she has of course noticed how my behavior has improved, and I am doing more around the house and finding more time to help her with our 5 year old daughter. She loves it. But she said she promised to let him out before Christmas... as she found it a bit sad for me to have him locked up for so long. I was finally honest with her and stated about how I have improved in everything... and she agreed.. so I simply said, so why would you want that to change? She asked what I meant, so I said, “why unlock him?”... the point of all this is that the cage can enhance a marriage.. she is getting more strokes and early morning body rubs - better morning as the reflux has calmed down - She has more time for her own things during the day as I help more around the house and with daughter... she said she is loving it. So when I explained that many many marriages are enhanced by this simple cage & that I am kept in a near constant state of horny frustration BUT it’s a wonderful feeling and if SHE is happy with how I am being. That PLUS the fact I am not pestering her for sex especially as she doesn’t feel great, then it’s a total win win. I wake her up with gentle back rubs in the morning which she is finding delicious and 4 times now she has let me give her oral.. But now she has finally accepted that the cage is a good thing and NOT some weird BDSM kink. And she accepts that I was a serial masturbator and that I am now going to wear it for the long term - Regarding Christmas, she says she doesn’t want me to have a cum, but she will consider letting him out for an ass, ball and cock oiling... IF she is in the mood... so.. I am back in the cage and my wife is on board at last & understands more about male chastity and the positive impact it can have! And I extremely bloody happy!