Good afternoon, I'm not new to chastity as Ms. and I have tried it before but it never quite took - and we're giving it another go. She has a BF now and can more readily focus on being my dominant and less on being my wife, so last night she locked me up and my goal is to stay that way. It will be easier as now she doesn't need *my* body to please her. I wear a device from Mature Metal that was a custom build. Stainless steel. it's really comfortable. The lock is the kind that has the rubber coating around the outside so the corners of the lock don't dig into my skin when I wear it. If you get the rigth chastity device, you barely feel it so smaller is better. We're taking it slow. If I make it a week, I can ask for another week. If I make it a month, I can ask for another month and so on it goes. Chastity affects you in ways you never thought and can wear on you after a while so we're taking it slow.