Hello to all. Giving a little background to my/our chastity journey. I presented to my wife the day after her birthday, in March. I fully researched the chastity topic and lifestyle. I went to a local adult shop and pull the trigger on a silicone cage. Put it on right away once home. Later in the evening I presented the keys to my wife. From there it has taken many conversations, trials, and errors to where I/we are now. There is still some trepidation in my kh thoughts. I know now that springing this on her was probably not the best way. But I went for it. She took the keys and here we are. To date, it is still pretty vanilla. Not to much t/d. My kh is not in to humiliation aspect of the lifestyle. All that being said there are times when her actions, conversations, and gusto have been on par with whatI have imagined. With the intro out of the way I look forward to convos with other members about their spin on their chastity. I will state the importance of communication is paramount with this lifestyle. I know my kh gets tired of me talking about it. I have to walk a fine line to not over communicate with her and “burn her out” with the topic. There are times like now where my headspace is all over the place. Since my kh is vanilla I feel as if I’m locked and put away. One side of my mind wants to discuss it with her but the other part things this is who she wants to run the show. I will state my kh is very well taken care of with pampering, my increased chores, and tending to her sexual pleasure. In August I drafted and chastity chastity contract for at least a year. After reading it several times and asking questions my kh signed the contract. I was very excited to say the least. Since the contract was signed I have had one full and that was 17 days ago. I could go in for a while but I have other chores to complete! Thanks for reading!! Capt
welcome and good luck to both of you. It's always good to remember she may not be as engaged in this as you, so give her some leeway. Hope it works out