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    Pretend ladies be gone! As sex content sites go, i think CM is pretty cool and with the well thought out Verified Ladies feature, something to be proud of. But fakery sucks! i don't mean this in a creepy way, but knowing there are real ladies on this site does a lot for my psyche and positive thinking. So please if you are faking it, go quietly into the night. And sissys! It's not my thing, but who am i to bag off someones kink. i just think a dedicated group where you can discuss your man clits and panty choices would be useful. And the gallery with an album dedicated to the cock showers, leaving the rest of it for Owners, KHs, Dommes, Mistresses etc and fine if the caged is accompanied by its Owner. This is not intended to offend, so sincere apologies if offence was caused, but in the spirit of free speech etc.
     
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    So basically, everyone except your own interpretation of who should be allowed here should go away.

    Different strokes, my friend. It's not up to you (or me) to decide who plays here.
     
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    I didn't suggest anyone should go away.... just fakers. The rest were suggestions to improve some groups and pic albums. Not sure what you're reading......my friend.
     
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    Yes you are suggesting others should go away. Specifically sissies, who you want to parcel off to some ghetto. I have no view either way on sissies, but your post is definitely suggesting they find somewhere else. And it's not your place to make that suggestion.
     
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    Emotional response, not bearing facts. I suggested a dedicated group, what's wrong with that? Unless of course you consider all groups ghettos, then your logic although skewed makes sense. Offence by proxy is odd.
     
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    My point is that you have picked on two things, seemingly arbitrarily, that you don't like, and have tried to bring them together as ways of "improving" the site - ie making it more to your taste.
     
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    No, i didn't say that. You did.
     
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    Read your post again.

    Including the fact it is all one paragraph, suggesting a continuous point. Including the condescending descriptions of sissy behaviour. Consciously or sub-consciously, your views are apparent.
     
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    You are liberal with your assumptions and what you think my conscience views are. Not once did you ask for clarification of intent, just straight into SJW BS. But that's fine, you continue to think what you like, it's your mind.
     
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    Exactly so. I know my mind.
     
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    You do, but only yours and never mine.
     
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    Totally naive question here, but what kind of pretending is it? Is it the ones soliciting?
     
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    I think we have discussed in the past about having a hetero-vanilla section of the site. Maybe that would serve your needs better as long as you don’t wonder out of your place.
     
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    Indeed. However, you usefully gave us a good hint with this thread. Thanks.
     
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    I don't understand what you want.... There is already a section of the forum dedicated to crossdressing! If you don't want to read our stories about panties (sic) then do go in that part of the forum. Simple.
     
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    Those males who masquerade as Females for some form of pleasure. Some do it to get cock pics others to maybe befriend other Females et.
     
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    @Jessica Alexander , i don't get your point.
     
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    That you totally converted to your perception of what i mean't. If you had asked, i would have explained, but you didn't. You just went straight to conclusion and accusation.
     
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    Are you saying that all cross dressers are sissies? I think there are more than subtle differences.
     
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    Yes the fake female profiles are annoying, but they are getting less every day : )

    There is already a crossdressing forum and a sissy chat room.
     
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    So for anyone who is vaguely interested, my point was more to do with:
    1. Shameful males masquerading as Females to con others into a range of exchanges.
    2. I think bundling sissies into a catch all group under CD/TV confuses that particular genre. So my understanding, a CD and/or TV are usually men who like to dress in Female clothing occasionally and as the mood takes. sissies are men who like to be subjugated by a dominant either in real or fantasy, to portray an extreme form of Female manifestation. Often maids or servants or 'boyish girls' but predominantly as a result of a dominant influence. They may even seek to be as female as possible, without other gender id challenges.
    3. I thought sissies may find the idea of a specific group appealing, in a non nazi segregation manner, as supposed by others.
    On a broader note, the appealing elements of good fetish sites are being able to be as open as possible. It would seem that even here, SJWs lurk and seek to be offended. A suggestion would be to check intent before jumping in with two feet. It may even kick off a decent conversation.
     
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    To me, the title of your thread indicates that you knew you were about to offend others then you get offended by their offense. Personally, I don't identify with "sissys" or crossdressers but they don't bother me either. I also go out of my way to identify as a trans woman just in the spirit of transparency. Your post reminded me of how some straight people claim to be ok with gay people but they don't want to see them flaunting it in public, ie., holding hands, kissing, etc., like the rest of straight society does.
     
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    I didn't bundle it well. The title was more about fake females, the rest was an idea. And i'm not offended, just puzzled why when others immediately become offended, they don't bother asking for context and then go straight to rant. Reminds me of the here and now, where if someone doesn't agree with another's view, they bring out the hate speech card. And if my post reminded you of something, then that would be in your mind, but not necessarily in mine. And to be honest, i think the more margin minded focussed on my 'not my thing' statement and then added their own particular spin on that. Your gay analogy makes no sense in the context i have articulated, but i guess it means something to you. i can't be responsible for how others think, but i can clarify context if asked.
     
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    I think you doth protest too much.
     
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    Maybe a hose and codpiece group.
     
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