What’s your ideal sex session? Ours usually changes but we have one we tend to repeat often because it works. Could you share what happens in your life so I can get some ideas. I will share a session we use a lot here to start.
Our sessions depend on the situation, but often start with me giving a massage, followed by sex (with my wife’s decision on whether I cum or not), or a semi-scripted BDSM session after I’ve warmed her up with my tongue.
Her favorite go-to is a long luxurious bath during which I kneel naked (and, of course ,caged) at the side of the tub washing all of her, usually with oiled and scented sugar scrub, then her hair, followed by a worship session with me on my knees at the side of the bed for multiple crests while I throb with respect and need. If she's feeling it she'll then get her Wand and require that the swollen cage be placed at her opening while the Wand brings her clitoral music to a crescendo and the cage vibrates without emission.
Unfortunately we have no option other than to plan sessions as we are both quite vocal and can’t play when there are munchkins in the house
The sessions I remember most are ones that Mistress took complete charge of, and they develop in a way that she wants. They usually start out with me in something cute and girlie. She will lay out a pair of extra pretty panties or a thong in the morning or after a shower. It's a hint that something fun is on her mind. We have a sconce in the bathroom; if a pair of panties or a thong are draped over it I know to prepare myself. Giving my wife a massage or foot rub is frequently mixed in there as well. I don't always get unlocked, but she does like to play with her boi parts, so I'm often unlocked, but I can not ask to be. It's always her decision. During one memorable session I was secured to a stool with plastic wrap, naked except for a thong. When she was pleased that I could not get free, she put on her strapon and said, "time to get on with the fucking!" I was shocked, she never uses that word. Probably why I haven't forgotten it, and also what followed. That stool has become a favorite of hers, lots of fond memories associated with it.